I'm not saying you're making it up, cause we've all been rejected for.... something.
But you also can't throw "these nikkas and they issues" in the bushes cause of "those two guys above".
When black men say all black women want thugs
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I'm not saying you're making it up, cause we've all been rejected for.... something.
But you also can't throw "these nikkas and they issues" in the bushes cause of "those two guys above".
At this point in time I'm tired of being blamed for some shyt I never did. I know it's some fukked up women out there I've even seen first hand what these guys are saying but if what I say is gonna be disregarded then i don't see why I should care what they're saying....
Women statically will always have more possible mates than men. Also some people respond to hard facts more often than not. A chart or graph has more weight than an anecdote.
I am in no way saying you've never been flat out told you're ugly cause you're darkskinned or you're pretty for a darkskinned girl because I have watched women at my old job go through that.All I'm saying is not every dude is on that. There are outliers. Just like there are women who don't like bad boys in their youth. Statistically speaking there have to be outliers. You have questions bf or a husband now if I'm not mistaken he must've been an outlier and I'm sure he's not a thug. He may not even be an Alpha.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
We squares love darkskin women.I have never heard this. Not saying it don't happen but I don't hang around men who think that way. If she's pretty and I like her I'll Holla. I once had a darkskinned girls only policy .
Good on you then.
I'm typically not someone's type (even when they end up in bed with me.) I just use that as a preface now.
I asked to give you a child and you rejected me
And yet I didn't let it turn me against ALL beautiful dark skinned Goddesses
I agree. This isn't a pity fest tho, I never lacked male attention depite the few that tried to hurt me lol. Yeah I got a man and yes sometimes I think he likes me more because I'm dark(he's crazy about my skin lol) but I love it. I never had anyone who says the things he says about it. It's great for my ego.Women statically will always have more possible mates than men. Also some people respond to hard facts more often than not. A chart or graph has more weight than an anecdote.
All I'm saying is not every dude is on that. There are outliers. Just like there are women who don't like bad boys in their youth. Statistically speaking there have to be outliers. You have questions bf or a husband now if I'm not mistaken he must've been an outlier and I'm sure he's not a thug. He may not even be an Alpha.
So you see what I'm saying then.
Reginald Noble
Banned
The exception does not change the rule
godkiller
"We are the Fury"
I think we misunderstand this issue as black men, or least I did.
The issue isn't that black women want thugs, it's that black women have higher standards for black men in general either because we have too many negative connotations as black men OR we just aren't rich or educated enough. As a result black women default to the most obvious thing a person would default to in a sea of men or women little to offer (in their minds): black men's apperance. Thugs, athletes, etc tend to have the best bodies because most of them do vigorous exercise (running away from cops, lol, or running away from defenders, lol, etc). And so that's the lowest hanging fruit for black women.
The solution: get educated and make money.
The issue isn't that black women want thugs, it's that black women have higher standards for black men in general either because we have too many negative connotations as black men OR we just aren't rich or educated enough. As a result black women default to the most obvious thing a person would default to in a sea of men or women little to offer (in their minds): black men's apperance. Thugs, athletes, etc tend to have the best bodies because most of them do vigorous exercise (running away from cops, lol, or running away from defenders, lol, etc). And so that's the lowest hanging fruit for black women.
The solution: get educated and make money.
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Reginald Noble
Banned
Nah breh
You WAY the fukk off base
There are tons of in-shape, educated and successful brothers I know personally in the NYC area that have NO pull with Black Women because many sisters are too self-absorbed, self-conscious or brainwashed to think Black Men ain't shyt and they gotta control the nikka to be compatible with these Men.
About 50% of the successful brothers I know in the area are dating or married out.
Perhaps this is different where you are but as I've always said it varies by geographic locale. This is the reality I've been adapted to since a young age, but it apparently comes as breaking news to yall.
BlackStarLine
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I dunno. I don't think men know what women like. And vice versa. Women don't know what men like.
A lot of nikkas think this way.
A dark skinned woman has to look like @MoonGoddess before she gets the same love an average light skinned or non-black woman would.
You'll notice how common that way of thinking is if you use Twitter often.
Yup I do. But it isn't my fault that I was born with a vagina between my legs and men want to fukk me. Just cause I get approached a lot doesn't mean that those guys actually wanted to be with me for more than a quick fukk....