Mindfield333
Superstar
Some people like big women. Just like some women like big dudes .
This is a reasonable response.I am minding my business. I take care of myself and my woman does too. And I will never tell another person who to date or what to weigh. Never.
I’m saying this obesity is NOT okay. It’s really not. You look at the stats concerning blood pressure, diabetes, joint issues, heart problems, limited workplace opportunities, etc. and you can’t tell me it’s okay.
For a supposed "heterosexual, black male" dominant site, you cats sure care a LOT about where another man sticks his peen.
If it doesn't apply to you, keep it moving.
White incel trolls online don't dictate my life.
You're a grown ass man.Thats not how stereotypes work, sir. You can’t just opt out. You are socially marked as having certain traits or preferences and by definition that is outside of your control
That means people will start acting differently around you. So it’s very personal
You're a grown ass man.
Think about that. You're a grown ass man crying over this.
I'm not conversing about nothing. I'm telling you.I’m not “crying”, we’re having a conversation about the importance of stereotypes and the harm they cause.
Don’t diminish that with silly, irrelevant babble about what is and isn’t manly
If you truly are a black man you should be just as offended as I am at misrepresentation of your image
I'm not conversing about nothing. I'm telling you.
It's silly for a grown man to feel the way you do. You're not in high school. Grow up. Move on with your damn life.
How can a grown man feel insecure about what others think because of another man's preference? You're ridiculous.
Inner thighs probably look like a BBQ grill
I'm confused? Projection? You can't even stay on topic. You're crying and you're getting emotional.How could a grown man have a cartoon for his avatar? How could a grown man with a job have 21,000 messages on an Internet forum? So many unanswered questions here.
You seem to have me confused, sir. I’m simply elaborating on why stereotypes matter and are a factor in our lives. That is an undeniable fact. All this other stuff about feeling insecure, being in high school, etc sounds like projection to me
If that's what they like, who cares?
It will only become a problem if every black woman you meet is obese.