People who are around their fathers more than their mothers often have better character development and a lot more personal growth.
Most of the times, father's teach you discipline and humility a lot better than the mothers.
What's The "POINT" Of Having A Kid If You AREN'T Married? (I DON'T Get It)
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People who are around their fathers more than their mothers often have better character development and a lot more personal growth.
Most of the times, father's teach you discipline and humility a lot better than the mothers.
Well because it's an important issueThe locker room is like the dark web of fukking idiots, why does this shyt always pop up on the first page
I've criticized that also and corporate welfare. However, this thread is about having kids when you AREN'T married. So, stick to the topic please.
This whole post makes ZERO sense. Marriage is a true commitment.
A child needs BOTH a mother and father in the home for values & discipline.
Children have been being raised for centuries in a multitude of different familial makeups.
The idea of Mother + Father + single home has only been around the last 80 years or so. And there's really no concrete proof that it's better than any other way families have been constructed over the years.
The idea is basically just religious dogma presented by cacs in America
You quoted me first, so I responded.What are you even talking about?
And why did you quote me?
Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
just because you're not married does NOT mean you're dysfunctional, and just because you're married doesn't mean you're NOT dysfunctional. what don't you understand? I didn't say you don't have to be a couple, I said you can be a couple and not married, what is wrong with your reading ability?
Kuwka_Atcha_Ratcha
Superstar
you people that believe in marriage are so brainwashed
Vashti
In need of assistance.
You have a point. There are differences between me and my half sister that you wouldn't believe (my dad married her mom and they lived in the same state/city) .People who are around their fathers more than their mothers often have better character development and a lot more personal growth.
Most of the times, father's teach you discipline and humility a lot better than the mothers.
Not having a steady father figure in your life can either make or break you. I don't regret the way my parents did it though. They did what was best for them at the time. Not having a father and/or mother figure can make you insecure growing up and then you have holes that you have to fill, for a while that can be with sex or drugs or other vices. Until you realize there are more productive things like reading, writing, philosophy, "religion", spirituality, traveling..doing whatever necessary to better yourself spiritually, emotionally, mentally, physically.
And at first it does make you a little arrogant because since your birth society has presented you with stats saying you'll never be shyt and since you know how hard you had to work to get the essentials that others were born with then it can slightly affect your capacity to be humble about what you've accomplished.
And I understand its better to improve yourself from a place of security instead of a place of "let me show the world/myself what I can do"..but even if those same unstable/insecure people chose to get married, it might make society look favorably on the relationship but it doesn't mean that the situation is any better. Now instead of two "fukk ups" living apart, you have two "fukk ups" living together with a piece of paper validating their union. They're still fukk ups though.
Vashti
In need of assistance.
Yeah ok. Tell me something I don't know. Married people raise idiots too. Donald Trumps and Hillary Clinton's parents were both married.
Marriage laws need to get reformed. End alimony and end unconstitutional child support. Then marriage rates will go back to normal levels again.
Vashti
In need of assistance.
I disagree.Well because it's an important issue
I've criticized that also and corporate welfare. However, this thread is about having kids when you AREN'T married. So, stick to the topic please.
This whole post makes ZERO sense. Marriage is a true commitment.
A child needs BOTH a mother and father in the home for values & discipline.
True, but there's a less chance of it happening. If there's a 15% chance that your child from a married household turns out to be a fukk up, while there is a 55% chance of your child being a fukk up in a single parent household, which you choosing?
You made those numbers up thoughTrue, but there's a less chance of it happening. If there's a 15% chance that your child from a married household turns out to be a fukk up, while there is a 55% chance of your child being a fukk up in a single parent household, which you choosing?
Vashti
In need of assistance.
surprisingly you're trying to end 2 things that benefit women the most. I see you..buddy. #supportthepatriarchy