What's The "POINT" Of Having A Kid If You AREN'T Married? (I DON'T Get It)

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The idea of a "family structure" as OP presents is a relatively new concept.

All a child needs is a caring, healthy family and community and they will be fine. The makeup of their immediate family does not really matter.
It does mater. A 2 parent home is the optimum condition to raise a child. That not really relatively new, that's a concept that goes back to Biblical times
 

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It does mater. A 2 parent home is the optimum condition to raise a child. That not really relatively new, that's a concept that goes back to Biblical times
No it's not.

The majority of human history families were raised in groups or by communities as the old adage goes.

Marrying for love, and raising children as children and not work horses is a relatively new concept.

It's based off a relatively recent interpretation of the Bible. In biblical times family life was absolutely nothing like what y'all are saying it should be today.
 
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So many people in here against marriage and and the nuculear family unit, when everyone knows it's the surest example of providng a child a stable uprbringing.

The way you guys defend single parenthood and baby mother/father relationships makes me believe none of you come from 2 married parent housholds. It's like you're trying to hide your own personal upbringing and justify the bullshyt your parents did.
my parents have been married damn near 40 years, I'm 33 and still on the fence about marriage in general, eh
 

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That was your best example :martin:
Was I talking to you? Unlike you I don't keep up with ish that doesn't concern me. Those mofos are criminals and are very relevant considering the election just happened a month and a half ago.

Obama on the other hand...cac mom, dead beat african dad...GREAT BLACK HOPE :blessed:


It does not interest or benefit me to look up crooked people and see whether or not their parents were married first. And actually bringing them up was a good example because you still have people in the thread saying "b- but at least they're successful". That's the real problem with society. No one gives a fukk if they're raising decent kids...as long as they have the appearance by society's standards of being decent. Society is :trash:. And I'll rep that b*stard life all day because most ish that society values/preaches isn't worth the paper it's printed on.
 

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Was I talking to you? Unlike you I don't keep up with ish that doesn't concern me. Those mofos are criminals and are very relevant considering the election just happened a month and a half ago.

Obama on the other hand...cac mom, dead beat african dad...GREAT BLACK HOPE :blessed:


It does not interest or benefit me to look up crooked people and see whether or not their parents were married first. And actually bringing them up was a good example because you still have people in the thread saying "b- but at least they're successful". That's the real problem with society. No one gives a fukk if they're raising decent kids...as long as they have the appearance by society's standards of being decent. Society is :trash:. And I'll rep that b*stard life all day because most ish that society values/preaches isn't worth the paper it's printed on.
It's my thread you idiot. Go back to school and learn comprehension idiot.
 

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It's my thread you idiot. Go back to school and learn comprehension idiot.
I don't give a fukk if its your thread idiot. I was not replying to you idiot. I have a post that was specifically for you idiot. Stay in your own motherfukking lane idiot. Thank you...thank you very much.

idiot
 

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I don't give a fukk if its your thread idiot. I was not replying to you idiot. I have a post that was specifically for you idiot. Stay in your own motherfukking lane idiot. Thank you...thank you very much.

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This is why you had kids when you were single and unwed? So, who's the whore again?
 

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I didn't lay on my back :dame: You did on multiple occasions :sas2:


Sex feels nice...I'm a recovering addict. Or more like a recovering casual user. Sometimes when you find a good drug you OD...in my case my OD came in the form of a baby. God is good.

Are you a virgin?
 

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You are really dense really you are :snoop:
nikka I guess I am dense because I don't know what the fukk you're talking about. Spell it out for me. What are you trying to say? I'm dumber than you or less of a person than you because I've enjoyed sex with multiple partners...or because I've had a kid and don't feel the need or desire to marry her father? If that's what you're trying to say then I concede that I am dumb in your eyes and the eyes of society probably. But that doesn't have shyt to do with me. Your shytty vision/eyesight/views don't alter who I am as a person. They just alter who you think I am. There is a difference.
 

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nikka I guess I am dense because I don't know what the fukk you're talking about. Spell it out for me. What are you trying to say? I'm dumber than you or less of a person than you because I've enjoyed sex with multiple partners...or because I've had a kid and don't feel the need or desire to marry her father? If that's what you're trying to say then I concede that I am dumb in your eyes and the eyes of society probably. But that doesn't have shyt to do with me. Your shytty vision/eyesight/views don't alter who I am as a person. They just alter who you think I am. There is a difference.
"Nikka" :mjpls:

Unprotected and it brought a kid into this world. You are the same broad that promotes feminism to the FULLEST degree. Take it from me, you're crap as a poster. Sit down, read a book, and LEARN something :francis:
 
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