What's The "POINT" Of Having A Kid If You AREN'T Married? (I DON'T Get It)

[Vashti]

True, but there's a less chance of it happening. If there's a 15% chance that your child from a married household turns out to be a fukk up, while there is a 55% chance of your child being a fukk up in a single parent household, which you choosing?

I'm a risk taker and a fukk up by nature...so 55% chance for 500 Alex. ** oh shytt...double jeopardy** next question.

 

[Wild self]

You made those numbers up though

But there's a less chance that a child grows up a screw up in a married household where there's a much higher probability where the child will be messed up in a single mother household

 

[Wild self]

surprisingly you're trying to end 2 things that benefit women the most. I see you..buddy. #supportthepatriarchy

Nah, I care about the family unit more than anything else. Alimony should have been done when women entered the workforce. That's what's Killin the incentive for people to get married.

 

[Wild self]

I'm a risk taker and a fukk up by nature...so 55% chance for 500 Alex. ** oh shytt...double jeopardy** next question.

Your father was in your life. A lot of mentally dysfunctional women think that they can raise a child without the biological father.

 

[Vashti]

Nah, I care about the family unit more than anything else. Alimony should have been done when women entered the workforce. That's what's Killin the incentive for people to get married.

I don't get alimony so I wouldn't know. I'm pretty sure mainly white people pay alimony. You should let them worry about that bullshyt. As far as child support...you had children but now you don't want to take care of them because they wife refused to take your bullshyt within the confines of marriage. Sounds like straight foolishness from the mind of a petty man.

 

[Wild self]

I don't get alimony so I wouldn't know. I'm pretty sure mainly white people pay alimony. You should let them worry about that bullshyt. As far as child support...you had children but now you don't want to take care of them because they wife refused to take your bullshyt within the confines of marriage. Sounds like straight foolishness from the mind of a petty man.

Marriage laws should be reformed. It cannot continue like this, before the institution itself will be dead to heterosexual couples in another 20 years.

But a paycheck can't replace the presence of the father in the household. Some women think that the kids seeing their father once a week is good enough, which is absurd. You can't control the incentive of marriage, until it's reformed.

 

[Vashti]

Your father was in your life. A lot of mentally dysfunctional women think that they can raise a child without the biological father.

My mom's father was NOT in her life but she still made sure me and my dad had a proper relationship. Those dysfunctional women you're talking about...what percentage of them simply don't want the father in the child's life vs what percentage of them due to not having a father of their own...either a) chose/attracted shytty men who don't want to be in the child's life anyways or b) don't know how to properly relate to the men they did choose/attract causing them un/subconsciously drive a rift between the father and child.

Its all about knowing better and doing better. Marriage is not an upgrade to some people and you don't have to be married to raise successful children. I just don't believe in forcing people to do things they don't want to do. But it is what it is.

 

[Wild self]

My mom's father was NOT in her life but she still made sure me and my dad had a proper relationship. Those dysfunctional women you're talking about...what percentage of them simply don't want the father in the child's life vs what percentage of them due to not having a father of their own...either a) chose/attracted shytty men who don't want to be in the child's life anyways or b) don't know how to properly relate to the men they did choose/attract causing them un/subconsciously drive a rift between the father and child.

Its all about knowing better and doing better. Marriage is not an upgrade to some people and you don't have to be married to raise successful children. I just don't believe in forcing people to do things they don't want to do. But it is what it is.

True, but at the same time, it's like a cancer how it's spreading. Every child deserve a mother and father who is loving that can be reached at any time of the day.

And yes, it's more than a few women that believe that daddy government and its social benefits is better than the flesh-and-blood father of the child. Especially when dysfunction is being marketed as cool.

 

[Vashti]

Marriage laws should be reformed. It cannot continue like this, before the institution itself will be dead to heterosexual couples in another 20 years.

But a paycheck can't replace the presence of the father in the household. Some women think that the kids seeing their father once a week is good enough, which is absurd. You can't control the incentive of marriage, until it's reformed.

I'll take your word for it.

 

[Vashti]

True, but at the same time, it's like a cancer how it's spreading. Every child deserve a mother and father who is loving that can be reached at any time of the day.

You think the government can force people to love their children? You think forcing individuals to marry before having children will cause parents to love their children more?

Maybe in the magical land of lala these things occur. But idk.

 

[MeachTheMonster]

But there's a less chance that a child grows up a screw up in a married household where there's a much higher probability where the child will be messed up in a single mother household

That's not really true when other aspects are controlled for.

Correlation=/= causation.

 

[Wild self]

You think the government can force people to love their children? You think forcing individuals to marry before having children will cause parents to love their children more?

Maybe in the magical land of lala these things occur. But idk.

No, but even if you can change the situation for the better for most people, it still be worth it

 

[Vashti]

No, but even if you can change the situation for the better for most people, it still be worth it

Ok.

 

[50CentStan]

Yeah ok. Tell me something I don't know. Married people raise idiots too. Donald Trumps and Hillary Clinton's parents were both married.

Bad example, those are very successful "idiots"

 

[Vashti]

Bad example, those are very successful "idiots"

yeah..i was thinking about that. having both parents took their corruption to another level. if only the average criminal could be that lucky


but now we get close to the root of the problem. who gives a fukk how decent a person may or may not be? the important questions are "are your parents married?" and "are you successful by society's measure?"?