What's the point of getting married in 2013?

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Marriage is simply when males persuade themselves that it's different than being in a relationship without the legal hassle. You can call her your soul-mate, lover, wife without papers without getting married. You got married because she pushed you into it.

let me get this straight: you know me? :ohhh:

know anything about my life outside of the coli?

cmon bruh...stop it. :beli:
 

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This is true. But for women (at least from what I hear from you ladies) there is still a social stigma associated for not being married by a certain age.

which is a shame. Hell I just turned 35 in a great relationship, but cant pull the trigger on marriage for some reason. help me out breh's and breh-ettes!

:to:

The stigma is actually not that bad now a days. Most people wonder why a female doesnt have children but are more understanding when it comes to not being married.

:manny:

So do you just not agree with marriage or do you see it in a mainly negative way?
 

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A contract that ensures you have a man for life.

Usually, he'll help provide for you and you kids.

Helps raise your kids, and you get financial benefits if the marriage goes sour.

Now, assuming you don't live in a common law area, how does marriage not benefit women?

I am not saying it doesn't:whoa:, but im saying that a marriage will not provide me with anything that I cannot personally provide myself with.

The only thing I can think of is the fulfillment and love one gets from relationships. Oh, and penis... thats about it. :yeshrug:
 

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The stigma is actually not that bad now a days. Most people wonder why a female doesnt have children but are more understanding when it comes to not being married.

:manny:

So do you just not agree with marriage or do you see it in a mainly negative way?

I have very negative views....especially from a male perspective.

But I still have hope it works....I just realize as I have gotten old that its not the fantasy that people/media try to ram down the publics throats.
 

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Its about time some one had the balls to make this topic finally.

We can finally discuss this issuse now.
 

beenz

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my question is how do ya'll afford to date? gas is sky high, economy sucks, most of these hoes ain't bout shyt. please elaborate.
 

bzb

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a lot of jaded cats in this thread. too much dirt being done. i wish my parents had stayed happily/gainfully married. :sadbron:

the way i understand it, married couples live longer and their offspring are usually more successful in life than their single parented counter parts. :ld:
 

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32 more days, and Im taking that vow (again)....

Im prolly gone be the only nikka on this site married twice.

I'mma be a statistic!!!!
 

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ATX x Jersey Devil x Little Caribbean/Flatbush MF
You talk straight out of your ass and u sound like a cuckhold. Furthermore you are either a devil or a very close friend of the devil trying to convince others that no man who is living his life has no time for a sexually inexperienced woman.

Basically to me u sound like u desire a chick who was trained by someone else. I bet your the kind of guy who kisses chicks in the mouth after theyve sucked somebody else off. If thats your lifestyle do u just dont push your agenda on others.

u obviously never been with a virgin or forgot what it was like. shyt, ive been with females who fukk alot and they still aint doin it right.

yall buggin out bout marriage. your opnion/view will change in 5-10 years. for now, be careful out there brehs.
 

VICVALLIN

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people kill me with the whole, "my way is the only way" train of thought. if you don't want to get married, that's cool, but don't act like other nikkas who feel differently are somehow esmasculated fukkboys.
 
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