What's the point of getting married in 2013?

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

and if she cheats?

you dont know people change all the time, a women today may not be the same women 5-7 years rom now

marriage rates are dropping lal over the world its sad but , marriage does something to a man. It weakens him. Neuters him. Destroys his pride and self-respect.

this is bullshyt man...i enjoy youre trolling as much as anyone on here...your threads on SOHH were hilarious...

but this is nonsense...if you become weak or neutered that says more about the man himself than it does about the institution of marriage....

ofcourse people change...thats life...

my opinion is that people get married too young before theyve experienced anything in life....

IMO no man should get married before the age of 30....the woman he marries should be in her late 20s to early 30s too...that way youve both lived a little...

but like anything else....everybody is entitled to their own opinion

 

[Swirv]

I'm telling the truth.

Take this to a thread and lets see who the people agree with more.

Name it some shyt, like "What do you think about a guy that HAS to marry a virgin"

Honestly i dont think they care abt this convo too much but u should create a thread with a poll. Id would do it but right now its not convenient.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

The divorce rate could be 70+% and I would still get married in the near future .

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

If you wanna get married cool, but there's nothing a dude can gain from marriage that you can't get outside of it.

same for women.

 

[Mac Brown]

same for women.

This is true. But for women (at least from what I hear from you ladies) there is still a social stigma associated for not being married by a certain age.

which is a shame. Hell I just turned 35 in a great relationship, but cant pull the trigger on marriage for some reason. help me out breh's and breh-ettes!

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

If you wanna get married cool, but there's nothing a dude can gain from marriage that you can't get outside of it.

its not about gaining some advantage...its wanting to be connected to somebody you love and care about...its about standing up infront of everybody and saying this is my woman...this is my wife....i know some of you dont get it...and thats fine.

i didnt get married for sex...or money....or even to be with her....i married her becuz i wanted to.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

This is true. But for women (at least from what I hear from you ladies) there is still a social stigma associated for not being married by a certain age.

which is a shame. Hell I just turned 35 in a great relationship, but cant pull the trigger on marriage for some reason. help me out breh's and breh-ettes!

how old is your lady?

 

[Brown Ant]

its not about gaining some advantage...its wanting to be connected to somebody you love and care about...its about standing up infront of everybody and saying this is my woman...this is my wife....i know some of you dont get it...and thats fine.

i didnt get married for sex...or money....or even to be with her....i married her becuz i wanted to.

Marriage is simply when males persuade themselves that it's different than being in a relationship without the legal hassle. You can call her your soul-mate, lover, wife without papers without getting married. You got married because she pushed you into it.

 

[954UAlreadyknow]

The 'point' of getting married is the same point of remaining single: Because it makes sense to you.​

 

[mahnameizray]

Self control and loyalty?

 

[CrimsonTider]

this is bullshyt man...i enjoy youre trolling as much as anyone on here...your threads on SOHH were hilarious...

but this is nonsense...if you become weak or neutered that says more about the man himself than it does about the institution of marriage....

ofcourse people change...thats life...

my opinion is that people get married too young before theyve experienced anything in life....

IMO no man should get married before the age of 30....the woman he marries should be in her late 20s to early 30s too...that way youve both lived a little...

but like anything else....everybody is entitled to their own opinion

No one should get married before living with the person they plan on marrying

 

[Mac Brown]

how old is your lady?

My age, but a few months older. We both just got carded for drinks a couple of hours ago. Both of us have NO kids.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

My age, but a few months older. We both just got carded for drinks a couple of hours ago. Both of us have NO kids.

ok...she doesnt wanna get married?

to be honest even if she does...and you dont...then yall shouldnt get married anyway...

it has to be something both of you want...

 

[Captain Crunch]

same for women.

A contract that ensures you have a man for life.

Usually, he'll help provide for you and you kids.

Helps raise your kids, and you get financial benefits if the marriage goes sour.

Now, assuming you don't live in a common law area, how does marriage not benefit women?

 

[Illuminatos]

do we really need **** jr running around the net tricking other men into giving him nude pics

and passing down a home that you still owe money on is not generational wealth. most people pass down debt

Trannies can't have babies so we won't have to worry about that.