satireprod
Superstar
@Vice Queen actually considering marriage even in a hypothetical manner? Ive seen it all. Lol just playing lady.
What's the Max Length of Time You're Staying in a Relationship without a Proposal?
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@Vice Queen actually considering marriage even in a hypothetical manner? Ive seen it all. Lol just playing lady.
someone asked if i was joking 
no, it was real answer
some of y'all are on the methuselah plan
probably spent 7 years on your 4 year degree
1 hour thinking about what you want for dinner
i mean, you can't rush things
but you also can't just passively absorb life
you have to learn how to read intent and correctly predict the next outcome in a timely manner
no, you still won't bat 100%
but the ground changes under your feet if you spend too much time on analysis
(there is a tide, etc.)
if you are apathetic or against partnering up, that's one thing
but if you really want marriage, then treat it with the repect and priority it is due
line up with someone who feels the same way
no way it takes 2+ years from first date to wedding day
no, it was real answer
some of y'all are on the methuselah plan
probably spent 7 years on your 4 year degree
1 hour thinking about what you want for dinner
i mean, you can't rush things
but you also can't just passively absorb life
you have to learn how to read intent and correctly predict the next outcome in a timely manner
no, you still won't bat 100%
but the ground changes under your feet if you spend too much time on analysis(there is a tide, etc.)
if you are apathetic or against partnering up, that's one thing
but if you really want marriage, then treat it with the repect and priority it is due
line up with someone who feels the same way
no way it takes 2+ years from first date to wedding day
Depends on the people, but its a discussion that should be had, otherwise it ends up being just happening when one or the other person is ready.
IMO if a man or a woman can comfortably being with someone for over 2 years and not want to get married that signals that deep down they want to keep there options open or there are larger issue at hand that when they do come up, instead of trying to work on them together they'll just bust out since you know...they aren't married.
IMO if a man or a woman can comfortably being with someone for over 2 years and not want to get married that signals that deep down they want to keep there options open or there are larger issue at hand that when they do come up, instead of trying to work on them together they'll just bust out since you know...they aren't married.
The fact that i can actually picture us old and grey together. The fact that when he brought it up my heart didn't stop and i didnt' feel like running for the hills lol. First person i ever been with that i see us making this last forever.
If i can see that then i guess marriage isnt to far a stretch for us.
The fact that i can actually picture us old and grey together. The fact that when he brought it up my heart didn't stop and i didnt' feel like running for the hills lol. First person i ever been with that i see us making this last forever.
If i can see that then i guess marriage isnt to far a stretch for us.
That's how it should feel
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
exactly, every married man I have ever asked has said they've known within a year that they were going to marry their wives. My sister's husband said he knew he wanted to marry her after knowing her for two months and they weren't even dating.
My fiance said he wanted to marry me after 6 months. I'm always like 
when guys say they need 5+ years like wtf, how are we together for 2 years but you still don't know if you really want to be with me yet? 
satireprod
Superstar
The fact that i can actually picture us old and grey together. The fact that when he brought it up my heart didn't stop and i didnt' feel like running for the hills lol. First person i ever been with that i see us making this last forever.
If i can see that then i guess marriage isnt to far a stretch for us.
Dope ish right there. Can feel the positive vibes right there. I pray for yall success.Homie wonThe fact that i can actually picture us old and grey together. The fact that when he brought it up my heart didn't stop and i didnt' feel like running for the hills lol. First person i ever been with that i see us making this last forever.
If i can see that then i guess marriage isnt to far a stretch for us.
He a legend for cuffin u
SouthernBelle
#Feyonce
3-5 years depending on our age/career stability when we started dating.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
My friend and I started discussing this after seeing one of the opening scenes in a movie where a woman was complaining that her boyfriend hadn't proposed yet. I think 3 years is my max. After that I'm dipping. My friend said 1.5 years was her absolute max.What's yours?
YOU would date A MAN???
Yes, I'm a heterosexual woman. Toodles now.YOU would date A MAN???
VFib
All Star
After a year and no discussion about marriage, I'm going to start checking out. A break up will soon follow.
Like a previous poster said, the married men I know knew in less than a year that they wanted to married their wives.
Like a previous poster said, the married men I know knew in less than a year that they wanted to married their wives.
Another reason I ain't wearing dat tux nobody can do the time
Sure you'd like to say 3 years but I've known people in school that were together that long and now they aren't. 3 years as an adult? Time be flying. I (used to
) fall easy but people change.
I'm my father's child
nobody can do the timeSure you'd like to say 3 years but I've known people in school that were together that long and now they aren't. 3 years as an adult? Time be flying. I (used to
) fall easy but people change.I'm my father's child
Get strung along brehettes.Another reason I ain't wearing dat tux
Sure you'd like to say 3 years but I've known people in school that were together that long and now they aren't. 3 years as an adult? Time be flying. I (used to
I'm my father's child
Since I had to quantify, 5 years is enough
