What's the Max Length of Time You're Staying in a Relationship without a Proposal?

[bcrusaderw]

from first date to proposal - 6 to 9 months
engagement to wedding day - 3 to 9 months
total - 12 to 18 months

life's short, brehs and brehettes

Way too soon for me.

 

[no.]

the rest of my life?

let's not get married

 

[Arcavian]

from first date to proposal - 6 to 9 months
engagement to wedding day - 3 to 9 months
total - 12 to 18 months

life's short, brehs and brehettes

shiiiiit, that marriage gonna be short too

 

[Ashley Banks]

2 years max, if you don't realize how perf I am by then, then you'll never realize it.

 

[Rawtid]

5 years.

-year one doesn't count lol
-2-3 solid years of committment
-1 year to save for wedding.

 

[Queen]

shiiiiit, that marriage gonna be short too

I got married a year after our first date.

I've been married for 8 years and I look forward to at least 82 more.

 

[Arcavian]

I got married a year after our first date.

I've been married for 8 years and I look forward to at least 82 more.

I love my girl..... but hell naw


congrats on your marriage though

 

[MoonGoddess]

Marriage was never something that I actually wanted. I got asked twice and said no both times......
It's in the future this time tho.

 

[Spike Tarantino]

A year and a half.

You know if you want me to be your Ole Lady after the first 6 months, if I don't fucc it up after a year, we might as well go for it

 

[LadySimone]

Depends...

What the ass look like?

 

[KinksandCoils]

Hard to say because it depends on the dynamics of the relationship. I would say if you have a great relationship, you spend tons of time together, you rarely argue than 3 yrs sounds a bit right to get married. The max would be 5 yrs.

I actually don't see the benefits of marrying someone after only knowing them for like 6mos-yr. some people don't even start showing their ass until 2 yrs in. I mean this is supposed to be the person you are with for the rest of your life.

 

[Rue]

Doesn't matter in my opinion, my dad met my mom and in a months time they got married, still happily married

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

I used to think years, the longer the better. Not dating necessarily but knowing the person.

But to be honest I think you probably know after the first 5 seconds of meeting them if you want them and after the first few conversations if you're compatible.

Anything after that is trying to find fault and reasons why you shouldn't be committing to them which means they're not the person for you.

Sexual compatability is a 21st century requirement. People have been getting married for eons without knowing and have made it work.

 

[satireprod]

Marriage was never something that I actually wanted. I got asked twice and said no both times......
It's in the future this time tho.

@MoonGoddess what changed your mind/opened you up to the possibilities of taking that dive into marriage lady?

 

[Vice Queen]

If I were really, really, really, reallyreallyreally into getting married, I'd say seven years.

If I can stay with you for seven years then I can stay with you fifty+.