I told you want the successful black men I KNOW want. You do have an agenda. Phenomenal women one come in shades of non-black. That's your message. You want to juxtapose perfect non black women against the worse stereotypes associated with black women as a whole.
I never said there are no phenomenal Black women. That's not my message at all. I'm simply saying that young, Black men in high-paying corporate jobs are surrounded by great women from a variety of backgrounds and rarely see Black women. He has to make a conscious effort to find Black women.
Most don't have time for that and simply go for what they have around, which are non-Black women.