I know what you mean, I'm in tech.
And so many good brothers didn't really grow up with their father.... a real person eventually figures it out unless your mother and aunts have influenced you so much that you Need to follow a man.
Ntm, if someone doesn't have tangible things to show, then I can't take them seriously. Like the youtube blogtalkers
Even then many dudes had crappy fathers in their life, and that weakness was passed down. I really belief there are two types of people in this world, Alphas and Beta. Everyone can't be an Alpha so we have to stop selling them dreams, however even if you are not meant to be a CEO or Boss or whatever Cooperation is key, and the issue we have is Blacks lack cooperation ability. You have JB dissing Farrakhan and his March in Oct, you have Hotep dudes on Sa Neter TV dissing random irrelevant debaters, you have dudes on this site dissing Biracial people who want to see black empowerment, etc. We preach Group Economics then two seconds later further divide ourselves, because the other dude is gay,biracial,short,muslim,atheist,bald, etc. We dont know what the hell we want to do and all this lecturing and stuff is just scared people trying to prolong the time before they meet their untimely demise to the current system they are under. Think about it, you had Elijah Muhammad and Garvey telling blacks what to do over 60 yrs ago, we still do nothing, we are on Hidden Colors 4 and still folks aren't doing anything, like Sharazard Ali said one time "is it going to be when Hidden Colors 15 comes out before Black folks take action?". I understand many people are in stages where they are building themselves so they can then build infrastructure, as I consider myself to be in the same thing, but even then folks refuse to Sacrifice their vices . When ever a white person kills a black all of black America is on social networks talking about we need unity blah blah blah, and a month later they are back on their dumb ish. Hell I tell dudes I went to college with they can buy property right now for little to nothing, and have a home for less than their rent, and dudes will be like "hell yea bruh good looking out" then 4-5 months later still not make moves. I`m at a point now where I've grown tiered of all this stuff, and now I`m like eff being pro black because its a lot of blacks that dont need nor deserve to be saved, its time we have a Mental Evolution, and form a new Class so to speak that is self sufficient and has a code.
/rant