what is there is reason why girl bounce back easily from break up compare to guys

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what is the philosophy behind this thought ?

Women don’t love like men do. It’s fairly simple.
 

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Women are hoes. I will always have a side piece and will always cheat on my girl.

As a man you have to because women don't have to put in any work.

We are the ones who have to keep gettin at bytches and dealing with their bullshyt.

So always have at least 2 women on deck.
 

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Another thing I have always heard was girls are not like men, we like to chill for a bit then get back into the game, women are whores, so they always have something lined up. You gotta cheat on ya girl at all times my Bros.
 
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Women usually have somebody in the wings waiting....for men, its about pride.ego which why we take it harder

Truth. Women are better at reading a situation. When you "officially" split, the woman has already been over it for a while. I'd also add that single, ok-looking women with a nurturing side (developed from being in relationships) will have dudes all over them when they get on the market. Men have to get re-acclimated to approaching women and knock off the rust. You see your ex out dating a bunch of brehs with 6-figure salaries and 6-packs and it'll hurt for a bit until you start having success again.
 

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quote @ignorethis



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what is the philosophy behind this thought ?

That specific picture resonates with me as I broke up with my ex and literally followed that path. I tried to holla at her a few months later and it didn’t work

But I think in that case it’s mostly because the guy has broken up with the woman and wants to go back into the dating game and not wanting to be “tied down”. He then probably realises it’s not the same as being in a good relationship.

On the female side, she may have been giving everything, not cheating, making time, caring more, etc. Then when the breh breaks up with her she crashes and then just emotionally feels better that she isn’t wasting her time with a guy who doesn’t respect of love her

Male testosterone also means our minds are playing tricks on us and we keep asking “who is she with right now” when we’ve broken up with them

Women tend to be more supportive of each other in all times of need including break ups.

Men are taught from boyhood to "tough" it out alone. Which ultimately amounts to suppressing something that needs t9 be vented out.

Women vent the bullshyt out early which makes it easier for them to move on quickly. Men hold it in and it kicks them in the ass later.

This is also very true.

Women support other women’s emotions rather than us men who just go strip club, a music club, smoke, drink, etc. Which are all ways to suppress the emotions.

On the other hand Some women get together, have some wine, watch soppy movies, eat chocolate and cry.
 
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Women end most relationships and will tHink about it months in advance so when they tell you, they have already talked about to their friends, have already slowly killed the emotional connection and when they drop them thangs on you they are already gone emotionally and don't view you in a romantic way.

Which is why they can go from talking to and hanging out with you almost daily to not even talking to you again and being fine

Women are emotional creatures
 

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quote @ignorethis



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what is the philosophy behind this thought ?

Well..

Many women simply have more options than men. So, like some people said, a woman can call up a roster of dudes waiting in the bullpen when they feel a need for male company. That isn’t to say that men don’t have the same, but I believe the average woman simply has more options than the average man.

However, I believe that many women struggle with breakups like men, especially if the relationship was long term or the ex was her first or something along those lines. I also believe that women across the board have a higher pain threshold than men. It’s easier for them to deal with getting dogged out than men because many women have a support system to help them through hard times. Men are pretty much on their own and will get less sympathy or empathy from their peers and society at large.

Lastly, how well someone deals with breakups depend on how deep their feelings were for an ex. The less feelings, the easier to move on. The more feelings, the harder. Add support systems, opportunities to date and other circumstances, then people will either adjust well to a situation or not.
 

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Most women deal with the break up mentally before the deed is done. By the time they hitting nikkaz the shyt is already resolved in their minds and they done cried already. Unless YOU drop them out the blue that is...

That's the difference. Men have a delayed reaction to break ups at first you thinking about the freedom and new opportunities while failing to deal with the emotional fallout until it hits you like a punch in the gut and you realize "boy this broad really worked me over" :mjcry:

I was knee deep in p*ssy 2 weeks after my last relationship but that shyt didn't ease the pain at all. Doesn't help that my last 2 exes were both putting down the best sex I ever had. That shyt is a gift and a curse...
 

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love this topic cuz im learning more and more

my last gf was 21 old, one day i went through her phone she was tellin her best friend dat she stressing because she never did more than two month in a relationship , at that time we were at 6 months already
in my mind i was thinking like wat the fukk is this , it clearly show that she looking for her way out
we eventually broke up after one year
as usual she had somebody after 1 week , meanwhile i was just fukkin different bytches

get this rep

I don't know why you guys do that shyt. I don't go looking for stuff that I don't want to find. It's easier just to trust your girl but keep a roster of your own
 
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