what is there is reason why girl bounce back easily from break up compare to guys

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what is the philosophy behind this thought ?
That's pretty much the length of time the docket number gets processed thru the court system once her daddy in them courts get a hand on you
 

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I disagree with this. In a breakup women usually get a new piece way faster than men do, like others have said, that new piece is usually already in the picture on some level. But I think in most cases men land on their feet quicker in terms of finding a new piece that actually lasts. Getting fukked on is one thing, but finding someone you really like and likes you back the same is another story. Seen it time and time again in my own life and others around me too. I’ll leave my details out but my moms is the perfect example, she busted out with a new piece right after she divorced my pops, so soon that the timing was suspicious really, dude eventually ended up being a scumbag and she spent years “dating” while my pops got a serious gf within the same year. Love her to death but I know that tore her soul apart. That’s how it usually works from I’ve seen.
 

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All about options. When I realized I had options dating became more difficult because I don't take any shyt from any girl. I can replace a girl within minutes of cutting her loose. It's nothing. So I replace them at a very high rate. I think girls operate in a similar way. They're looking for reasons to try something new. They're not trying to make it work.
 

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Like dude above me said, when men get cheated on it kills your whole pride and ego, because the woman crushed your trust, but the other nikka in the equation got a dub on you. Because women don't fukk nikkas that they don't like on an emotional level and that nikka provided something you couldn't or else she would have just got it from you.

Thread (and the biggest difference why a male is more crushed)...

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EDIT: 100% cosign @JamilALAmin too. It might be easier for females to find some new cheeks (unless your a dude that still maintains an active roster)...but its easier for dudes to find wifey. Dudes are gonna slay your ex and keep it pushin unless she prized where your from...:hubie: She'll get ran thru and assigned a number like the rest of the thots. Seen it a milli times. The odds of this happening triple if she already has kids cuz most nggas...especially dudes that got something going for themselves AKA "the ones they want"...ain't gonna take em seriously.
 
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Personally, I have seen FAR more women becoming 'Men ain't shyt' bytches after a couple of relationships turned south than men becoming 'Women ain't shyt' sociopaths.

Most of the time, men are like that BEFORE they get emotionally involved with women.

Just look at most of the posts in TLR.

#GMB.

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Just because they bounce back and start with someone new that may or may not had already been in the picture, that doesn't mean they're in the clear.

The grass isn't always greener. If women pull this on the wrong guy they're going to end up regretting it later while the guy may had moved on to better things. A lot of women make stupid decisions because of emotions and regret it later.
 

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All about options. When I realized I had options dating became more difficult because I don't take any shyt from any girl. I can replace a girl within minutes of cutting her loose. It's nothing. So I replace them at a very high rate. I think girls operate in a similar way. They're looking for reasons to try something new. They're not trying to make it work.

love this topic cuz im learning more and more

my last gf was 21 old, one day i went through her phone she was tellin her best friend dat she stressing because she never did more than two month in a relationship , at that time we were at 6 months already
in my mind i was thinking like wat the fukk is this , it clearly show that she looking for her way out
we eventually broke up after one year
as usual she had somebody after 1 week , meanwhile i was just fukkin different bytches

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love this topic cuz im learning more and more

my last gf was 21 old, one day i went through her phone she was tellin her best friend dat she stressing because she never did more than two month in a relationship , at that time we were at 6 months already
in my mind i was thinking like wat the fukk is this , it clearly show that she looking for her way out
we eventually broke up after one year
as usual she had somebody after 1 week , meanwhile i was just fukkin different bytches

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I'm sorry you had to deal with that. Girls are fukking mean. All of them. I wish guys would realize that. I love women to death, but I understand them too. They're dangerous. LOL. A girl will take a man out before death, the feds, poverty, and violence.

They're always gathering information on you and withholding information about themselves. To them information is a currency and weapon of war. No issue is isolated, for example anything you do today is relative to something you did five years ago and will affect your future. LOL they're like Marty Mc'Fly with the time traveling.

Girls are also amazing when they want to keep you. But you gotta make a girl love you and that takes manipulation. I challenge you to know everything about a girl you're dating while withholding as much information about yourself as possible. Never answer questions directly, but let her know you listen to everything to she says. Never ever chase, fight, or yell. If she wants to go let her go. Don't ever fight for her in any shape or form. Don't ever raise your voice. She ain't worth straining your vocal chords. Swear to God, if you feel like you're going lose control walk away.

Bet money she comes to you. Then you can trust her because she knows what time it is.
 

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Women usually have somebody in the wings waiting....for men, its about pride.ego which why we take it harder
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I would say on average, it's easier for a woman to move on. There's usually like 6 dudes in the wings to take a nikkas spot even if she's semi-attractive


Plus she probably still compares the dude to someone else in the past. So unless you're better to them, they will probably keep it moving a lot sooner than you.


And then, a lot of times they never even loved the dude they was with, it was just a placement
 

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Lol I literally experienced the left side of that picture with my current girl.

First day "Yes! I'm back single, I can start fukking these hoes again."

Week passes, I'm fukking hoes but slutting out women doesn't have the same sensation it used to, in fact it kinda makes me feel bad.

Then the breakdown :mjcry: "I miss my girl"

But to the OP, breh I honestly think a part of women enjoys getting dogged, so even when they get done dirty it hurts but not at a character shifting level. Women play dumb but also they know that men can fukk a woman that they don't respect or even hate, they can eventually rationalize that it really wasn't their fault or a shortcoming on their part.

Like dude above me said, when men get cheated on it kills your whole pride and ego, because the woman crushed your trust, but the other nikka in the equation got a dub on you. Because women don't fukk nikkas that they don't like on an emotional level and that nikka provided something you couldn't or else she would have just got it from you.

The emotional part of cheating is really more crucial than the sexual part for a lot of people.

TL:DR - women are better at rationalizing that "its not my fault".

I agree with most of this but Women been fukking dudes for non-emotional reasons since the beginning of time. Money, security, etc.

Women fukk dudes they don't like or respect ALL THE TIME, just like dudes can do. Just like a dude might fukk a chick because new p*ssy feels good, women get bored of the nikka they love the same way.

The biggest difference is that women tend to have bigger repercussions (Pregnancy) so they tend to be more choosy but as contraceptives have become more commonplace, women are becoming far more sexually open.
 

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women are allowed to be more emotional, thus we deal with our emotions more frequently and therefore are better at handling a variety of emotional states.

we also put our emotions on the line/into situations more often, therefore we have more practice dealing with hurt, disappointment and heartbreak.

lastly, females lean on each other for emotional support - we can vent, cry, be angry, vulnerable etc with our friends, having that support helps recovery. for the most part, men aren't going to call up their boy and cry over a girl or have a two hour convo venting about their breakup. when you have to deal with stuff internally, it takes longer to work through, and if you're the type to let one situation put you off from similar situations in the future, you end up becoming jaded and bitter - it's often the perspective from others that helps people remain positive in the face of adversity.
 
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