what is there is reason why girl bounce back easily from break up compare to guys

[Bledswole]

Yup, shyt be so blatant. If I'm at the bar, the bartender starts eye fukking me until she sees my whale. One time, we went out, I stepped aside to go to the bathroom, these 2 drunk bytches were hitting on me, she asked me about it later but was happy. Our female friends keep saying I'm fine af. 2 of them are swapping through p*ssy pics of themselves in front of me at a club. One of them almost tried to make out with me in front of her. I'm thinking like na ma, I can't be getting hit on like this while you're turning into humpty dumpty. I want chicks to be jealous of my girl, the first time we met. She works out but does that white people workout and diet that only works for them. She takes fukked up advice from everyone but me and it's making her look bad. I can't get advice from friends because they all can't keep a relationship or give fukked up advice.

So what you gonna do?

 

[VertigoKnight]

Hey... u really need to stop speaking to her... i know u and ur ex are probly cordial, civil or whatever but cut that shyt off clean.
It makes it harder to really, really move on. U can say u are moving on but trust me ur not...or ur making it a slower process by speaking to her...
This "being cool after we just broke up shyt. never, ever seems to ends well

I agree. But Its hard as we have financial interests together. Including properties. I'm looking after my investments by making sure she doesnt go off the reservation.

I do try to keep our interactions soley built around us dicussing that.

 

[NobleDrewAli]

This is literally how u should handle being dumped. Women be HEATED when u not depressed n stalking them after they dump you.

This is the perfect way to handle that situation. Jerry clearly had an abundant mentality instead of "oh no, she's gone. I'll never find anyone else like her" type shyt. She'll probably even come back to you after a few days or weeks of not talking to her if you do this.

 

[bucks3115]

A lot of good points were made in this thread but I also want to add that women are a lot better at isolating their significant others from other women than men are at isolating their significant others from other men.

My exes were pretty thorough pushing any chick I was friends out of the picture but if I ever questioned the friendship with their guy friends i would look overly jealous.

Just my experience, but maybe I'm just a bytch ass nikka :Bronremix34:

This thread is awesome , im learning alot of shyt from this

I will definelty do better in my next relationship

 

[N711oir]

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[mag357]

I agree. But Its hard as we have financial interests together. Including properties. I'm looking after my investments by making sure she doesnt go off the reservation.

I do try to keep our interactions soley built around us dicussing that.

Cool... i just..... ugh...
I know its hard, breh... I always give this advice and i always get similar answers... "we got kids". "we're partners in this or that"... im not judging, but i know when u really dont wanna be around a muthafuka, u can find a way to not be around them or limit that shyt to bare minimum interaction.
Ive seen this shyt a million times. Yall been talking about yall feelings and shyt... Nope...
like u said... keep that convo all about business.
For some reason it always seems like the dude gets put in a fukked up situation if the 2 parties still are communicating after.

 

[Caca-faat]

You guys appear to pick trash women, then generalise all women based on your poor choices. Then come up with some kind of pseudoscience bolstered by crowd mentality.

I can understand that after having your heart broken you try to rationalise it by shielding yourself away; but making assumptions and keeping multiple women on the side is a sure fire way to block ur blessing.


Good Women don’t do the things you appear to accuse all women of doing.

 

[Easy-E]

what is the philosophy behind this thought ?

@ "first day"

Women break up with u 3 months b4 they tell u

 

[mag357]

You guys appear to pick trash women, then generalise all women based on your poor choices. Then come up with some kind of pseudoscience bolstered by crowd mentality.

I can understand that after having your heart broken you try to rationalise it by shielding yourself away; but making assumptions and keeping multiple women on the side is a sure fire way to block ur blessing.


Good Women don’t do the things you appear to accuse all women of doing.

How many women have u dated?

 

[Chrishaune]

She knows she has nikkas on deck... That's why

 

[Hiphoplives4eva]

because they have 50,000 guys waiting in line and probably already have a few 'friends' that they were testing the waters with. As soon as they break up with you, they get to openly deal with this other dude.

On the other hand, unless you're one of the elite guys, you're going to have a period where you're by yourself after a breakup.

Exactly. This is why men should focus on becoming elite.