what is there is reason why girl bounce back easily from break up compare to guys

[Bledswole]

How invested one is in the relationship is a much greater factor than their sex. I've seen both sexes bounce back like it was nothing and I've seen both sexes drag. Usually when it's different for the same relationship it's cuz they had different views of that relationship. And length of the relationship isn't necessarily a tell either, sometimes the end of a long relationship brings relief.

I agree,this is a solid thread,but also too many variables to really get a firm answer

 

[JasonSJackson]

What this image doesnt show
Is the consistency these females are going through this unhealthy cycle

Hoe hampstering on a wheel blaming each man until they with the next one dealing with the same shyt again.

Keep eating and eating
Till they cant find a date
Then block it all out with more food on their plate

They eat and they eat till they no longer have shape
Just a big butt only matched by their big gut and fat face

Then the word diet becomes their best friend
When that becomes their new reason for not keeping a man

So they focus on fit
In every moment they get
Till they waste so much time
No one else gives a shyt

Then they whore themselves out for social attention
On internet platforms I wont waste time to mention

Instagram:Lukhanyiso_maat

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

What this image doesnt show
Is the consistency these females are going through this unhealthy cycle

Hoe hampstering on a wheel blaming each man until they with the next one dealing with the same shyt again.

Keep eating and eating
Till they cant find a date
Then block it all out with more food on their plate

They eat and they eat till they no longer have shape
Just a big butt only matched by their gut and fat face

Then the word diet becomes their best friend
When that becomes their new reason for not keeping a man

So they focus on fit
In every moment they get
Till they waste so much time

No one else gives a shyt
Then they whore themselves out for social attention
On the internet platforms I wont waste time to mention

Instagram:Lukhanyiso_maat

Truth bruh, I keep going through this shyt with women left and right. They initially look good and as soon as you date them, they start looking funny af and not maintaining themselves like when you first saw them. I still work out religiously and my girl gets crampy at the word diet. I would diet and gain muscle in a second, if I started gaining weight like her easily. She's starting to look like a whale and wanting to go out more, other girls are eye fukking me and I feel awkward af. I don't like going out for this exact reason. It's not that I don't wanna go out, it's that she's gaining a shytload of weight. This is consistent in most of my relationships. I'm just glad I'm not married because I feel like I'm doomed to be stuck with whales. It's the most awkward feeling ever.

 

[Bledswole]

Truth bruh, I keep going through this shyt with women left and right. They initially look good and as soon as you date them, they start looking funny af and not maintaining themselves like when you first saw them. I still work out religiously and girl gets crampy at the word diet. She's starting to look like a whale and wanting to go out more, other girls are eye fukking me and I feel awkward af. I don't like going out for this exact reason. It's not that I don't wanna go out, it's that she's gaining a shytload of weight. This is consistent in most of my relationships. I'm just glad I'm not married because I feel like I'm doomed to be stuck with whales.

How tall are you and how much you weigh?

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

How tall are you and how much you weigh?

5'11, 185

 

[MikelArteta]

Currently going through the tail end of this.

I'm happier and more mentally clear than I've been in a long time. We're no longer wasting each others time just ambling along like most relationships are doing. We spent the last two years doing that. Do I miss her? Sure do. Its hard to be going home to someone and suddenly no longer doing so. but we grew apart, as most couples do whether they care to admit so.

I do see her fairly regularly for other matters and we talk sensibly sometimes.. Neither of us are celebrating though. It's been tough. She has vented more than me with her friends though and boy I heard she was saying some wicked things about me. Mostly through anger but that's always tinged with truth.

But please don't believe any female who's been with a guy for a significant amount of time is not feeling that hurt as deeply, even more so. My ex was honest with me and said she lies to her friend support group about how happy she really is and has made mistakes she regrets.

They told her she needed new dikk to get over me. Emotionally vulnerable and new dikk doesn't always work in most cases. Despite the temporary boost. Both guys she since slept with have aired her. One of the guys, she has since told me she was already feeling at a BBQ we had gone to the previous summer, so please believe your girl already has a guy or two on her mind even if she's in a relationship.

All the 'advice' her dumb friends told her has amounted to nought, and the guys she has tried to date have all disappointed. She told me she feels depressed.

I feel really sorry for her tbh. I still love this chick, I can't turn that off. But any romance we had is gone. Its strictly like caring for a very close friend.

Meanwhile I'm now living single, have multiple fun ladies on deck. Enjoying all the dating I'm doing.

 

[JamilALAmin]

lastly, females lean on each other for emotional support - we can vent, cry, be angry, vulnerable etc with our friends, having that support helps recovery. for the most part, men aren't going to call up their boy and cry over a girl or have a two hour convo venting about their breakup. when you have to deal with stuff internally, it takes longer to work through, and if you're the type to let one situation put you off from similar situations in the future, you end up becoming jaded and bitter - it's often the perspective from others that helps people remain positive in the face of adversity.

I think outside perspective isnt all its cracked up to be, you should also look inward and soul search on your own, which is usually what men tend to do. Clearly something went wrong cuz it didn’t work out, that means it’s time to recalibrate and change shyt up. Best way to do that is on your own. Relying just on outside perspective is a recipe for disaster for a number of reasons. First off unless you super messy your circle isn’t going to know all the inner workings of your relationship. So they can’t give good advice because they don’t know all the details to make an informed decision anyway. Second, some in your circle might be vindictive, maybe they didn’t like your ex from jump street, maybe they secretly wanted to smash on the low, or maybe misery just loves company. Can’t get good advice from someone who has that in the back of their mind. And lastly let’s be honest for a minute, in 2018 most of the folks out here got fukked up relationships too. We all surrounded by divorcees, serial cheaters, baby mammas/daddys, and all around bitter and jaded people. I’m not about to ask most of the folks in my circle for advice on relationships because most of them ain’t successful at it. And the few that have been good at it aren’t available like that because they take their relationship seriously and don’t have the time for that because their working on their own thing. I’m not about to ask a J for advice on how to save money and chase a check. So why would I ask another breh who in the same position as me for advice on this? shyt is ass backwards. All it ends up being is the blind leading the blind and personally all you doin is kicking the can down the road instead of facing what your own issues are and fixing them.

 

[Bledswole]

5'11, 185

Does she see the women eye fukking you?

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

Women are encouraged to express their emotions and Other females will support they're girl.

Men are taught to pretend shyt doesn't bother them and will try to deal with it alone

 

[New Username]

Our lust for p*ssy is not
Greater than their pursuit of love and fairytales

We wanna fukk no matter what

They rather not because the emotions arent there

Sex /=/ emotions

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

Does she see the women eye fukking you?

Yup, shyt be so blatant. If I'm at the bar, the bartender starts eye fukking me until she sees my whale. One time, we went out, I stepped aside to go to the bathroom, these 2 drunk bytches were hitting on me, she asked me about it later but was happy. Our female friends keep saying I'm fine af. 2 of them are swapping through p*ssy pics of themselves in front of me at a club. One of them almost tried to make out with me in front of her. I'm thinking like na ma, I can't be getting hit on like this while you're turning into humpty dumpty. I want chicks to be jealous of my girl, the first time we met. She works out but does that white people workout and diet that only works for them. She takes fukked up advice from everyone but me and it's making her look bad. I can't get advice from friends because they all can't keep a relationship or give fukked up advice.

 

[mag357]

Currently going through the tail end of this.

I'm happier and more mentally clear than I've been in a long time. We're no longer wasting each others time just ambling along like most relationships are doing. We spent the last two years doing that. Do I miss her? Sure do. Its hard to be going home to someone and suddenly no longer doing so. but we grew apart, as most couples do whether they care to admit so.

I do see her fairly regularly for other matters and we talk sensibly sometimes.. Neither of us are celebrating though. It's been tough. She has vented more than me with her friends though and boy I heard she was saying some wicked things about me. Mostly through anger but that's always tinged with truth.

But please don't believe any female who's been with a guy for a significant amount of time is not feeling that hurt as deeply, even more so. My ex was honest with me and said she lies to her friend support group about how happy she really is and has made mistakes she regrets.

They told her she needed new dikk to get over me. Emotionally vulnerable and new dikk doesn't always work in most cases. Despite the temporary boost. Both guys she since slept with have aired her. One of the guys, she has since told me she was already feeling at a BBQ we had gone to the previous summer, so please believe your girl already has a guy or two on her mind even if she's in a relationship.

All the 'advice' her dumb friends told her has amounted to nought, and the guys she has tried to date have all disappointed. She told me she feels depressed.

I feel really sorry for her tbh. I still love this chick, I can't turn that off. But any romance we had is gone. Its strictly like caring for a very close friend.

Meanwhile I'm now living single, have multiple fun ladies on deck. Enjoying all the dating I'm doing.

Hey... u really need to stop speaking to her... i know u and ur ex are probly cordial, civil or whatever but cut that shyt off clean.
It makes it harder to really, really move on. U can say u are moving on but trust me ur not...or ur making it a slower process by speaking to her...
This "being cool after we just broke up shyt. never, ever seems to ends well

 

[Bobby Lashleys eyebrows]

Our lust for p*ssy is not
Greater than their pursuit of love and fairytales

We wanna fukk no matter what

They rather not because the emotions arent there

Sex /=/ emotions

We grew up thinking about white picket fences and fairy tale families till we realized, those dreams were more realistic for women than men and replaced love with lust. That's the reality of it. There's a reason you don't see girls on LSA or the coli having
#GMB cliques.

 

[John Reena]

This is literally how u should handle being dumped. Women be HEATED when u not depressed n stalking them after they dump you.

 

[Neuromancer]

Women always have a back-up.