I never said you can replace a human life...did u read the post & try to understand what you read or jus skim thru it & pick a smilie you like? ...I jus said people value different things in different ways, if ur dad gave u a chain that was passed down since ur fam came to america & I threw it away & got u one jus like it, its a material object but it might not hold the sentimental value...some people might not take losing a child the same way another person will hence why I said u can take the family out of the story & use anything a person values...not sayin its right, its reality, screamin on a message board to a stranger wont change that...but in da end shyt happens & although u cant turn back time or replace a person, sittin there angry or jus wonderin why this person died instead of someone else isnt goin to change reality, u jus have to accept it & keep pushin...whether u believe in God, Allah, whomever whatever its still true