You do know I live in Atlanta since 2005, right? You do know the chick I dated in Atlanta that I was madly in love with was from NC, right? And her mom from SC. And she's one of the AA women that told me "you people eat way too much rice".
The other chick I dated in college who played basketball is a native Atlantan herself. Been to many cookouts and dinners at her mom's. Probably had rice there once. Only time I could clearly remember her eaing rice was when she came to Caribbean carnival with me. Outside of that most AAs I spend a lot of time around will eat some rice but not nearly as much volume as typical Caribbean brehs. I'd say the amount of rice most AAs eat in a month is about a week's worth for us which us very unhealthy. Bottom line is ive been around many AA households enough to see that while rice is indeed part of the diet, yes. But caribbean people overdose on the shyt by comparison.
You werent paying attention. Outside of breakfast, rice is expected in every-single-meal.
Now, some latino caribbean families who live in the United States may reduce the amout of rice they eat as they get more americanized and also being aware of the dangers of eating too much rice in this environment (diabetes). But like i was saying before outside of breakfast they'll slap 2 pounds of rice in your plate at every meal.
Heck, come to think of it when i lived in Costa Rica i remember making fun of my GF there because costa ricans eat rice (gallo pinto) for breakfast
I remember telling my mom about it and she said certain haitians (nothern haitians, Plateau Central area and up) eat rice for breakfast too.