Staying fit takes actually work and self control., but those standards had zero impact on half yall walking around here with fupas
Staying fit takes actually work and self control., but those standards had zero impact on half yall walking around here with fupas
But if AKA’s are held up as the most desirable because of their complexion. Who outside of the Black community is setting that standard? The average European/Cac doesn’t even know what an AKA is.
And why do so many dark skinned Black women for Kamala Harris as their “sister girl” if her whole existence is problematic to how society will view them?
two mix race and the token dark skin woman to overcompensateOf course you'd find a way to over-analyze what I said. Okay then, Bria Myles, Melyssa Ford, and Paula Patton. I can keep going forever and I'm sure you'll find something wrong with any woman I mention because you already have a narrative that you're sticking to in your head. My point was that good looking women (and men, for that matter) don't complain about beauty standards because there are no "standards" that can overshadow genuine attractiveness.
I got a thing for this blonde Asian woman, am I liking for a clout?The modern black males keeps up with the standard by dating "foreign" and "exotic" women. You get more respect and clout from other black men for having a less black woman...
Listen to many hip hop song where they describe a woman's features. Its usually a mixed woman.
And why do they seem to only apply to Black women?
For example. I’ve never heard Black men or Asian women talk about the pressures of living up to this so called standard.
I’ve been hearing this term brought up by our sisters a lot recently.
How long has this standard existed? Where does it come from? Who is responsible for holding this up as the “standard”?
It happens.Asian women be eye surgeries to look more white.
You just exposed your ignorance.
This is you viewing things thru rose colored glasses and not in true context.
I’m young but all my aunts was poppin in the 70’s. First off every black woman was not rocking a fro. Plenty of black women were still relaxing or pressing their hair. And truth be told, unless the man you was dealing with was really down for the cause and not just following the pro black wave, he preferred the silky look because it was more aligned with the American standard.
If you wanted to work in an office downtown, you could wear a nice picked out short Afro, sure.
But if you were going for a competitive role, you were pressing that hair out to give you an edge with white hiring managers.
This is beyond wrong.
most people aren’t sitting around not loving themselves over this, as most people have a lot more to think about than their looks. but there is always the reality that there is a western standard of beauty and it won’t ever be a brown skinned wide nosed, full lipped, kinky/coily haired woman.
To be honest I don’t know the last time I’ve talked to an Asian outside of a professional setting.
The ones I used to kick it with back in the day were much more obsessed with Black American culture and esthetic.
nikkas was burning they fukking scalp trying to get white man hair.. They still perm and flat iron it to this day. Dressing up in low budget and tacket zoot suits, trying to dress white. Rappers in all their high end white fashion. Supermodels being 99% white and frail, just like white men like them, but the nikkas is the ones lusting. All the damn caribbean is whitening their skin.And why do they seem to only apply to Black women?
For example. I’ve never heard Black men or Asian women talk about the pressures of living up to this so called standard.
I’ve been hearing this term brought up by our sisters a lot recently.
How long has this standard existed? Where does it come from? Who is responsible for holding this up as the “standard”?