I remember my dad said something that put shyt in perspective for me when I was younger and started listening to rap and noticing drug dealers/users, etc.
Me: "Pops, they flash all that money and have all that fancy stuff, that's what's it's all about now"
Pops: "Son, I got my education and stayed out of that life, but you best believe if I cashed my check every week I'd have a thick wad of money in my pocket too, but I put it in the bank like a wise man because I have a family to take care of and kids to raise. And you know what? After you guys are grown, after i made all that money for all those years, I'm still going to be making just as much, if not more, and I'll still be able to cash my checks every week and walk around with a fat wallet if I want, and not look over my shoulder stressing about how i got it. Those guys you're looking at? Give 'em 10 years, they won't have two nickels to rub together, and no family to be proud of."
He said that so cool and smooth, but with such emphasis and conviction, I've never forgotten it and never will.
It was a monumental moment in my childhood.