This has always been the core issue and has been loudly stated for years. Those same people have been gaslit with "You nikkas just hate women" "the incels mad y'all" for the same amount of yearsSounds like ur issue is with the stories not the characters which is really what’s at the heart of the issue with marvel stuff right now not names guardians of the galaxy, Loki or spider man
The crux of all this is that ultimately Disney is for girls, and they haven't shown much capability in regards knowing what type of stories boys and men like. Also creating female characters with blanket masculine traits is not a successful formula because not even women want to see that shyt
As more time passes MCU phases 1-3 are looking more and more like an anomaly because that's the most male catering Disney has ever been, and those stories are from decades old comics. As soon as phase 3 ended they pivoted to "Ok let's get these men out of here and bring the ladies in" and it's been downhill ever since