Alright. If she's communicating her discomfort with something in a very open way, then as a part of a healthy relationship, you either come to a compromise or talk it out.
Let a new nikka give him her time
Update: GMB Great girl, cooks, cleans, independent, no male friends, no clubs or social media BUT..
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Alright. If she's communicating her discomfort with something in a very open way, then as a part of a healthy relationship, you either come to a compromise or talk it out.
Let a new nikka give him her time
Voice of Reason
Veteran
Depends on your age.
If you’re 24 cut her loose and enjoy yourself
If you’re 34 you might want to lock her down and get out of the game
If you’re 24 cut her loose and enjoy yourself
If you’re 34 you might want to lock her down and get out of the game
Devil Plisken…CMS
Veteran
Keep your broad b
datnigDASTARDLY
catching pigeons
your girl sounds perfectly normal considering her personality breh. My wife is like that too, it takes a monumental effort to get her acclimated to new things, whereas us brehs are chill. She's got comfort with you, accept it. Don't overthink it, and introduce her to some new shyt or just deal with it.
It could most def be worse, but the fun part is whatever happens yall both will grow together.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Don't you have friends with wives or serious girlfriends, you can introduce her their wives or girlfriends so they can hang out.
Once y'all have kids, all that shyt will be out of the window, that kid will take all her energy & time
Once y'all have kids, all that shyt will be out of the window, that kid will take all her energy & time
Sounds needy
Does she have a circle of friends she chills with?
If she can't have her own individual social life and/or defines herself only through attachment to you....then ...that's tell tale signs
Run breh
IDK about running but I agree with everything else.
Sounds like she doesn't have any life outside of OP while he be partying at the club every week.
Been 3 years still no proposal. Found out awhile ago it really doesn't pay to be the type of chick OP is dating. Men say they want it but it is rarely the type men go for.
MrWestGrand
The Negotiator
What does she do career wise? Does she have s skillset or passion that she could build a business platform outside of her normal Job?
BaldingSoHard
Veteran
At age 40, I'd cash out.
10 years ago, I would've held out for all that plus she hafta be a dime.
10 years ago, I would've held out for all that plus she hafta be a dime.
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
I see it like this:
If your only problem with her is this one little thing - you might as well iron out this one little thing before you go wifing her.
It doesn't make any sense to marry anyone that ain't down with something you really down with.
You've already tried to meet her halfway by inviting her to get down with your other chit. If she's saying no, there ain't nothing else you can do to fix that.
Personally if it were me in this scenario I wouldn't change chit. She can get down or get gone.
If your only problem with her is this one little thing - you might as well iron out this one little thing before you go wifing her.
It doesn't make any sense to marry anyone that ain't down with something you really down with.
You've already tried to meet her halfway by inviting her to get down with your other chit. If she's saying no, there ain't nothing else you can do to fix that.
Personally if it were me in this scenario I wouldn't change chit. She can get down or get gone.
Chrome2279
All Star
Man flip this fukking story, what if the man did everything for the girl the man was able to do everything cook clean pay for everything do everything. And all he wanted was some attention from his girl. That’s all this man asked for. And say the girl cheated on him....
y’all would all say this bytch is dumb cheating on a dude That did all that shyt for her.
nikka this is the same fukking shyt you got a girl is doing all the shyt for you. And you are acting like some dramatic depressed motherfukka Can’t make up your own goddamn mind... nikka is you dumb?
Good women are hard to come by, cherish what you got. Stop being a bytch.
y’all would all say this bytch is dumb cheating on a dude That did all that shyt for her.
nikka this is the same fukking shyt you got a girl is doing all the shyt for you. And you are acting like some dramatic depressed motherfukka Can’t make up your own goddamn mind... nikka is you dumb?
Good women are hard to come by, cherish what you got. Stop being a bytch.
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Sounds like she has no real hobbies, YOU are what gives her, her enjoyment
Just get her into shyt she likes, and she ain't gonna be thinking about you nonstop. That is a good thing, because eventually shyt is gonna go left if you do something she doesn't like. The more you have a life of your own, the more you appreciate who you fukking. Let's be honest without the sex, you are just good friends.
Just get her into shyt she likes, and she ain't gonna be thinking about you nonstop. That is a good thing, because eventually shyt is gonna go left if you do something she doesn't like. The more you have a life of your own, the more you appreciate who you fukking. Let's be honest without the sex, you are just good friends.
AsTheWorldBurns
Superstar
Are you gonna dump her when she turns 30? I know you not a fan of them over the hill bytches.