Update: GMB Great girl, cooks, cleans, independent, no male friends, no clubs or social media BUT..

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@Stuntone

I've actually been in this position before. Was busy af balancing a career and djing multiple nights out of the week.

Lost a good loyal woman who wanted more of my time.

Eventually I got older and life slowed down for me. I wish I could find another woman who is as good to me as that woman was compared to the vast majority of women out here who are only out for self and what you can do for them.

Be careful what you ask for dog.
 

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We broke up

After reading this thread this seemed inevitable to me especially when you said it was really impacting her. I've been in a similar situation and I told my ex "I cannot be your hobby, I am my own person with my own desires and I cannot live to make you happy". If y'all get back together you need to set boundaries that you do not waiver on regarding your ability to have your own life. Remember, if you work a 9-5, the only time you have to work towards your future is the time you have off. If you're giving all that time to your girlfriend what do you think your future is gonna look like?
 

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Remember, if you work a 9-5, the only time you have to work towards your future is the time you have off. If you're giving all that time to your girlfriend what do you think your future is gonna look like?
Man who are you telling.
Be Sunday night getting ready for work tomorrow like wtf happened to the weekend. fukkin around laid up with this broad all weekend That shyt is gone:damn:
 

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Somebody define good women for me ...seriously:jbhmm:

Imo.

Wants to fukk you
Pleasant to be around
In her feminine
Adds not detracts from your enjoyment of life

Is like the base qualities for a good girl. Everything else is a bonus in 2019 honestly. If you can get those you can feasible get her onboard your preceding goals, dreams, etc. But if she missing any of those the work to make up one is gonna fukk you in the end. At some point you fucjing up can push her out of them ofc but if she got those 4 qualities today, you winning.
 

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We broke up, basically because she says I'm never home. Pretty weak, I write it off as her just being quick to give up, like most of our generation. Nothing last anymore.


GMB.

She was only like a 5 breh. She looked like an ex HS girlfriend of mine, an immature goofy.

You go get you a baddie with her own life mayne. You've got a little practice in with that average piece. :ehh:
 
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