Update: GMB Great girl, cooks, cleans, independent, no male friends, no clubs or social media BUT..

[DJ Paul's Arm]

We broke up, basically because she says I'm never home. Pretty weak, I write it off as her just being quick to give up, like most of our generation. Nothing last anymore.


GMB.

Welp.....
































Drop dem nooooods!!

 

[BrehWyatt]

We broke up, basically because she says I'm never home. Pretty weak, I write it off as her just being quick to give up, like most of our generation. Nothing last anymore.


GMB.

Whatever you have to say to get through it is your prerogative...

But that chick moved to be with you, and she communicated to you about something she perceived to be a problem in the relationship and that it significantly affected her. Despite her communicating this ... nothing changed, at least not to the point where the relationship was worth continuing. I'm not really sure what else you could expect from a "good" significant other in that situation.

Frankly the only thing you could have done was call her bluff when she declined your invitations to places on some, "I want you to be with me when I do this, and you wanted to spend more time with me, what's the issue?" type shyt.

Ah well ... that's a finicky reason for a breakup to me, but c'est la vie. You wanted your space, it is what it is. Hate it for you and her, breh.

 

[Stuntone]

@Stuntone

I've actually been in this position before. Was busy af balancing a career and djing multiple nights out of the week.

Lost a good loyal woman who wanted more of my time.

Eventually I got older and life slowed down for me. I wish I could find another woman who is as good to me as that woman was compared to the vast majority of women out here who are only out for self and what you can do for them.

Be careful what you ask for dog.

I actually haven't been djing much. I visit my family once or twice a week. She's always welcome, but doesnt usually want to come. I treat her really good. we don't argue, we both cook, new Cars, very nice crib, a couple of trips a year, she doesnt make much money. We're best friends every day. She doesnt really value the things I listed. She's unhappy bcuz her career and family situation isn't the best. I think she blames me and the relationship. Just doesnt knows how to be happy and satisfied.

were still cool, I could get her back, but I've lost faith in her, she's a quitter. with coaching/financing from her bitter man hating abused grandma, she moved out like I was beating her . That really bothers me. She's a good woman, but isn't built for the long hall and or dont know what to value in a man or relationship

 

[dj-method-x]

I actually haven't been djing much. I visit my family once or twice a week. She's always welcome, but doesnt usually want to come. I treat her really good. we don't argue, we both cook, new Cars, very nice crib, a couple of trips a year, she doesnt make much money. We're best friends every day. She doesnt really value the things I listed. She's unhappy bcuz her career and family situation isn't the best. I think she blames me and the relationship. Just doesnt knows how to be happy and satisfied.

were still cool, I could get her back, but I've lost faith in her, she's a quitter. with coaching/financing from her bitter man hating abused grandma, she moved out like I was beating her . That really bothers me. She's a good woman, but isn't built for the long hall and or dont know what to value in a man or relationship

Sounds like she has some growing to do. It'll happen eventually. You may or may not be there when it happens, but you'll rebound either way. Don't stress it too much and keep your head up. Try not to lose your gotdamn mind as a newly single nikka out here on these streets. It's a cold game out here. All that glitters...you know the rest.

 

[13473]

were u married? how is this GMB if she just a girlfriend.

this is HRB (have relationships, brehs)

 

[ReadOneBookAWeek]

I actually haven't been djing much. I visit my family once or twice a week. She's always welcome, but doesnt usually want to come. I treat her really good. we don't argue, we both cook, new Cars, very nice crib, a couple of trips a year, she doesnt make much money. We're best friends every day. She doesnt really value the things I listed. She's unhappy bcuz her career and family situation isn't the best. I think she blames me and the relationship. Just doesnt knows how to be happy and satisfied.

were still cool, I could get her back, but I've lost faith in her, she's a quitter. with coaching/financing from her bitter man hating abused grandma, she moved out like I was beating her . That really bothers me. She's a good woman, but isn't built for the long hall and or dont know what to value in a man or relationship

We're you upfront with her about the fact you really didn't want to adjust your lifestyle to spend more time at home?? Sounds like you were leading her on that change was coming and she realized you weren't going to switch it up for her.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

We broke up, basically because she says I'm never home. Pretty weak, I write it off as her just being quick to give up, like most of our generation. Nothing last anymore.


GMB.

Yeah, the writing was on the wall from the start of this thread. The most valuable thing you can give a (good) woman is your time. Neglect her long enough and she’ll find someone else.

Somebody define good women for me ...seriously

Someone who makes you happy. It’s that simple.

 

[Ya?]

Nice thread sorry that you broke up @Stuntone

 

[Ashley Banks]

I actually haven't been djing much. I visit my family once or twice a week. She's always welcome, but doesnt usually want to come. I treat her really good. we don't argue, we both cook, new Cars, very nice crib, a couple of trips a year, she doesnt make much money. We're best friends every day. She doesnt really value the things I listed. She's unhappy bcuz her career and family situation isn't the best. I think she blames me and the relationship. Just doesnt knows how to be happy and satisfied.

were still cool, I could get her back, but I've lost faith in her, she's a quitter. with coaching/financing from her bitter man hating abused grandma, she moved out like I was beating her . That really bothers me. She's a good woman, but isn't built for the long hall and or dont know what to value in a man or relationship

How is she a quitter? If you weren’t giving her all the she needed out of the relationship why would she stay? Should she just accept that you can’t give her what she needs and stay? Would you do that?

edit: this thread is old my bad.