Update: GMB Great girl, cooks, cleans, independent, no male friends, no clubs or social media BUT..

[tonyclifton]

She wants all of your free time! I mean damn near all of it.

Me and my girl are best friends, It's been 3 years I still really enjoy all the time we spend together, never get tired of her. Like I still enjoy cuddling with her daily and doing day to day stuff. She very easy to please, doesnt care for fancy clothing and material things, wants a small wedding. She was raised by her grandparents. She gets my humor. We laugh together. Did I mention shes' bad!!! She's a 9 to me, but a solid coli 8. I'll post a pic later. Sex could be better at times, but other than that I don't have any complaints. Her issue is I'm not with her as much as she would like, I work nights and dj on the side. And I go south Louisiana once or twice a week to see family and check on my house. She doesn't really have friends nearby and isn't really close to her family like I am. I have a lot of family and friends I love to visit and chill with. Most of the time I invite her, but she doesn't really care to go, she just want it to be me and her most of the time. Lately she's been telling me it's really getting to her that I'm gone so much. I feel her somewhat bcuz she moved up here to be with me, but at the same time I want a life outside of the relationship. She's real old fashion, so I know there's good and bad any every situation.

I think about dating her in before I met her Hard to find a loyal, no attention whoring, low mileage woman down here in Louisiana.


What would you guys do?

Spoiler: Me and My Girl

My wife is word for word like this. It is definitely nice that I never have to worry about any of that shyt. She hasnt done anything like that in the 12 years we been together


I know it’s selfish but it really does get difficult when everytime I just wanna to the bar and kick with just my bro or whatever I get the

I’ll def take it over her going out all the time and shyt. It’s been so damn long I’d probably think she was fukking Around if she went out

It’s a good sacrifice

 

[RTF]

My ex girlfriend was similar but she had a big family.

I knew I would never move her far away from her own family. Otherwise she would want to spend all her time with me and I just can’t. Id rather travel across the city to see my people than have her isolated in my hood when I won’t be home a lot anyway.

If you can. Try and find a way to get her closer to her people.

Also if you plan on seeding her she needs a support network that is close and hers. Even if it’s a small one.

Introvert women require a lot of effort but at least it’s about themselves. I’ve also dated my share of extrovert women. Those problems are way different and usually involves other people. Pick your poison.

Btw I need a woman that has her own things going on. I personally can’t deal with side eyes when I want to hang with my friends. Not accusing you of this but some men’s insecurities about women leads them to favour an introvert type woman which they may not be compatible with.

 

[Wiles]

keep her breh #khb

 

[Mr Rager]

You won't find anyone better. Learn to cope with it or be direct and tell her you need space occassionally. If y'all are really as cool as you say you are, she'll get it.

 

[CASHAPP]

She is a introvert and doesn't have a big family. It's so wild and ratchet down here, no one trust anyone new. I just chill with family and a few old friends.

The best type of woman to marry(the introvert part i mean). That is what I wanna go for when i get married. I don't know about you per say or yall situation but the only thing is even if I get established and marry them i still would want some strange on the side. I feel like the introverted chicks throughout history are more likely to be down with that. What do you think?

 

[cornercommission2k12]

she was raised by her grandparents, she may be dealing with some abandonment issues, that she compensates by being clingy, she has not yet fully processed why big mama and pop pop had to raise her and not her parents, even if she knows the reason , its like life was kinda unfair, she gets a bit intimidated seeing you with family and friends, because she herself didnt have that

but we are all not perfect, her hermit-like persona is probably what you need in your life and you just dont realize it right now. its a great balance. allow her to be her.

how many of your family members have reached out to her to come out with them? if that has not happened i would advise you find the couple of level headed family members to just get her out every once in awhile. and you cut down some to show her she is number 1, because that is what she is struggling with. she wants to feel like she number 1, likely due to her upbringing.

and getting a woman that is very social, usually never ends well. you rather have a woman that is bit more a home body. especially if you talking marriage and family.

 

[FLATOP]

Does she have any hobbies or friends? A loyal drama-free homebody is good, but a boring uninterested one? nah.

If no, find something you can both enjoy then maybe she can make friends through that

 

[Pimpdaddy]

Sounds like @General Mills second wife

EXACTLY what I thought

learn from @General Mills mistakes breh, he took all these Ls for us

talk to her, find a compromise and live a good life together

 

[Uchiha God]

just get her to be more involved with your trips, family and friends. if she could find something she likes doing for herself that would help too, cause time alone and/or time cultivating self, is very important for every relationship.

 

[Knicksman20]

She wants all of your free time! I mean damn near all of it.

Me and my girl are best friends, It's been 3 years I still really enjoy all the time we spend together, never get tired of her. Like I still enjoy cuddling with her daily and doing day to day stuff. She very easy to please, doesnt care for fancy clothing and material things, wants a small wedding. She was raised by her grandparents. She gets my humor. We laugh together. Did I mention shes' bad!!! She's a 9 to me, but a solid coli 8. I'll post a pic later. Sex could be better at times, but other than that I don't have any complaints. Her issue is I'm not with her as much as she would like, I work nights and dj on the side. And I go south Louisiana once or twice a week to see family and check on my house. She doesn't really have friends nearby and isn't really close to her family like I am. I have a lot of family and friends I love to visit and chill with. Most of the time I invite her, but she doesn't really care to go, she just want it to be me and her most of the time. Lately she's been telling me it's really getting to her that I'm gone so much. I feel her somewhat bcuz she moved up here to be with me, but at the same time I want a life outside of the relationship. She's real old fashion, so I know there's good and bad any every situation.

I think about dating her in before I met her Hard to find a loyal, no attention whoring, low mileage woman down here in Louisiana.


What would you guys do?

Spoiler: Me and My Girl

Don't know if this was said but make friends with some couples that are cool with you both & are good people. Once she has a female friend/s it'll be easier for you both. Even couples should have their own me time from time to time to chill with their friends

 

[Weaver31]

OP,

Sounds like u have a good woman but she needs to have more friends and/or closer family relationships along with some of her hobbies. It isn't completely healthy to be all under someone ALL the time. Sometimes y'all both may need alone time to think. Encourage her to network and meet other people to befriend or to enjoy shared hobbies. She also needs to get a lil closer to some of her family.

 

[Cat piss martini]

spice the sex up alittle and make
more time for your ole lady man.
she sounds like a keeper if your
time is more valuable to her than anything.
dont let these streets get and ruin her.

 

[Phitz]

This thread should be done by now lol. OP stay put.

 

[YamakaSmacker]

Spoiler: Me and My Girl

Look at these 2 cacs

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Yall are cute. She's a good one, keep her.