Oh no- I feel you.This would apply if it was only dudes doing dirt but we all know both can be just as wicked, full stop.
I'll never forget one of my godbrothers got viciously played by his girl, who I guess wanted to slick one of the dudes in our circle.
Everyone told him, "your wifey's energy is different around ole boy. Watch it."
Even our mutual friend who she was giving lowkey rhythm to warned him that her energy was foul.
He trusted her, handwaved all the warnings.
Our mutual eventually showed him the snaps she'd sent him, devastated him.
Like, tears on a lunch break broken.
My godbrother wasn't doing dirt, they were saving for a house. Hell, the nikka favors Idris a little bit!
They ish was great til it wasn't n she was done.
He fought her on the separation and divorce, even after she moved so foul.
So nah, all that to say this...it's not just bad behavior on our part that spurs this kinda mercenary detachment.
His wife was a wh0re. Sorry for him, honestly.
However this particular example was about cheating.
The commenter said that he watched men who ruined their relationships get upset that their wives didn’t react. THAT’s what I’m talking about. Getting mad your wife doesn’t to have a breakdown after you purposely shoved your penis is another women is actually psycho @Still Benefited