Men do. The problem isn't submissiveness/catering, it's other things and she is saying she's too submissive as a deflection
It would be like if I man said "women avoid me from me because I'm too cool and attractive". Any woman reading that would be like " "
Plus she said later she thinks men dont like her because shes too independent and can do for herself
If men complaining about that you probaly just submissive on your own terms,with shyt YOU wanna be submissive about,which aint the defenition of submissive....probaly pull that miss independent card out when she need a trump card,and need to win a argument.
Men hate inconsitency