Men do. The problem isn't submissiveness/catering, it's other things and she is saying she's too submissive as a deflection
It would be like if I man said "women avoid me from me because I'm too cool and attractive". Any woman reading that would be like ""
Plus she said later she thinks men dont like her because shes too independent and can do for herself

If men complaining about that you probaly just submissive on your own terms,with shyt YOU wanna be submissive about,which aint the defenition of submissive....probaly pull that miss independent card out when she need a trump card,and need to win a argument
.Men hate inconsitency

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.......these are horrible personal decisions breh....bout the only thing I can condone is the dancing for trick
, young and hungry bull she was did what she had to to get on.....but the rest of that shyt was just foolish
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So if you admit its the same old story and own up to it...why is it yall NEVER EVER LEARn and keep repeating the same mistakes? You think women would learn from millions of examples of society by now but its like you guys(dont get offended im not saying you yourself im talking your peers) just get hardheaded about it.
at some point you have to admit that you make bad decisions