I don’t even understand why brehs on this forum are so obsessed with trans people anyway. I live in gay friendly nyc and even here trans are a rarity.
Most brehs on here live in the south and the Midwest where gay people aren’t looked at as favorable. So I know for a fact that they aren’t seeing trans like that.
I've been arguing with brehs for the last week and here is what I got.
These brehs seem to not like trans people because they aren't "normal." Normal to them is both tradition and influence. To them everything is from influence, from how you dress, how you talk, even to who you are fukking (gender).
These brehs want to fukk women not because they are exclusively attracted to women but more so because its "what men do". Ie their fathers, uncles, male friends, and men on TV fukk women so they are just doing the "normal" thing in their eyes.
Gay people and trans people being accepted and shown in a positive light is causing an issue because they think the influence is going to change.
If your whole life is based on being "normal" and that normality is caused by doing what others around and before you are/have been doing then trans being normal is an identity crisis for these people.
If trans people and fukking trans people is seen as normal whats stopping them from fukking a trans person? Their sexual prefrences are not based on true internal desire, but just influence. They are afraid that they may be "influenced" into fukking trans people and they are scared that that could make them gay and not "normal". So they are doing the most to not have a conversation with themselves on why they operate in life the way they operate.
Women hate trans women because they want to feel special about being born a woman. The same chicks who cry about patriarchy do actually like it when it makes women seem better than men. The concept of being a woman being just a social construct that has no basis in moral worth frustrates them because if a man in their eyes can be a woman, then maybe they aren't some sort of special creature just because they have a vagina. These types of feminists aren't looking for equality, they think they are better than men just because they are women. This is the same mindset poor cacs have against black people where they would rather be at a lower place in capitalism than to be equal with black people.
TL;DR: Trans people existing is causing a huge identity crisis in a lot of people.