TK Kirkland "The worst thing you can do is to raise another man's child, its mental illness"

[Nigerianwonder]

You're literally talking just to talk with no actual reality in there.

Plenty of people formalize those relationships by adopting their step children.

Happens every day.

Especially when the children realize that someone really loves them and puts them first, showing that through thick or thin, this person is gonna be in their corner.

Go outside and then return to this discussion breh.

No it does not happen often. You cannot just adopt someone else's kids. The biological father would have to consent and give up their parental rights. Even deadbeats rarely allow this.

 

[Ol’Otis]

TK Kirkland geigh

 

[Gobie1kenobie]

A man who created SEVEN broken homes is taken seriously and given a platform… our community

 

[Hov]

No it does not happen often. You cannot just adopt someone else's kids. The biological father would have to consent and give up their parental rights. Even deadbeats rarely allow this.

Breh this happens EVERYDAY

Seriously where do you live???

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Unpopular opinion but the black community would be in a better place if we promoted and embraced the step father lifestyle.

Guys should just be a father figure to the woman's child they are currently dealing with

It would stop a lot of the fatherless issues with the young men in our community.

The black community would be in a better place if both men and women who are procreating
Went and got help for their trauma as children
Started having real conversations about the what ifs of pregnancy or actually planning the pregnancy
Seeing if both people are on the same wavelength when it comes to parenting
The black community would be in better shape if we didn’t have Barry Bond big head ass women talking about becoming single moms on their own and not wives
Saying 50/50 is a no go because they saw their pop pops and gmas relationships without knowing the intricacies of said relationship
Coming from a single parent home
Another nikka couldn’t have raised me
I needed my biological fathers voice and guidance
I had ogs and an uncle but I still did fukkery because I craved my REAL fathers voice
That’s what you keyboard intellectuals dont get
Even with my divorce, I made sure my voice was the only one allowed raising my child
What I look like deferring my guidance to another weird coli nikka to raise my seed
You nikkas talking all this bullshyt then when these weird nikkas sexually assault both boys and girls of single mother households
Y’all silently as fukk
People have all these tools to make better decisions than our parents
But still parrot old bullshyt from our parents
Make it make sense
TK just said it in an ignorant way
For yall nikkas to be so smart but can’t decipher the message

 

[Gloxina]

Between nikkas like this racking up the views and Trump, do yall seriously TRULY still have hope for us in this country? Cause sheesh

You see it. Nazis trying to overthrow the damn government, White ppl want to see “people of color” removed from jobs/careers they’ve earned, but this is the message being produced by a Black man with a platform. This is a time that is literally calling for Black ppl to get serious and unite with like minded folks to survive what is coming, but we back on single moms


White men out here radicalizing their stepchildren and getting them gamed up for whatever is coming, but this is what’s happening over here when it comes to Black children Lmao

 

[Gloxina]

The black community would be in a better place if both men and women who are procreating
Went and got help for their trauma as children
Started having real conversations about the what ifs of pregnancy or actually planning the pregnancy
Seeing if both people are on the same wavelength when it comes to parenting
The black community would be in better shape if we didn’t have Barry Bond big head ass women talking about becoming single moms on their own and not wives
Saying 50/50 is a no go because they saw their pop pops and gmas relationships without knowing the intricacies of said relationship
Coming from a single parent home
Another nikka couldn’t have raised me
I needed my biological fathers voice and guidance
I had ogs and an uncle but I still did fukkery because I craved my REAL fathers voice
That’s what you keyboard intellectuals dont get
Even with my divorce, I made sure my voice was the only one allowed raising my child
What I look like deferring my guidance to another weird coli nikka to raise my seed
You nikkas talking all this bullshyt then when these weird nikkas sexually assault both boys and girls of single mother households
Y’all silently as fukk
People have all these tools to make better decisions than our parents
But still parrot old bullshyt from our parents
Make it make sense
TK just said it in an ignorant way
For yall nikkas to be so smart but can’t decipher the message

Of course in a perfect world/better community what you are saying would be the case, but it’s going to take at least one generation for us to get there.

The truth of the matter is, if every father wanted to be there, they would. So what happens to the fatherless homes if a decent man (who isn’t a predator) is willing to take on the role?

In the best case scenario, divorced/single people with kids need to find each other and create a blended home if they can’t make it work with the other parent.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Our black kings y'all.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

Between nikkas like this racking up the views and Trump, do yall seriously TRULY still have hope for us in this country? Cause sheesh

No. And I want as far away from us as possible. I'd rather live around a bunch of cold, robotic Asians or even Mexicans than live around or in a community of whites or "us." American culture and discourse has cooked us to the core. There's no hope.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

fukkery on Podscasts is the new crack era.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

A man who created SEVEN broken homes is taken seriously and given a platform… our community

"Community." This shyt is a crackhouse in the middle of a trailer park engulfed in an inferno. America.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I think TK uses the term “another man” more than > really he should be another of the smiley he wears the same aviators with same disapproving look

 

[AAKing23]

Unpopular opinion but the black community would be in a better place if we promoted and embraced the step father lifestyle.

Guys should just be a father figure to the woman's child they are currently dealing with

It would stop a lot of the fatherless issues with the young men in our community.

My nikka, do you realize black men are already the most likely to be stepfathers of all races of men?

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

You see how dumb people are?

Why are we having discourse about this lol

I don’t even believe people believe what they’re saying in here just to say shyt to sound smart


TK could have said eggs and bacon don’t go together and Coli posters would be like “as a man you shouldn’t have bacon on your plate”

 

[Ohene]

When my cousin was 17, she got into an argument with her stepdad after he caught her sneaking boys in. In the heat of the moment, she told him, "You are not my daddy." The sad part is, he had been the one raising her since she was about six or seven months old, and at the time, she didn’t even know who her biological father was. In a fit of anger, he snapped and slapped her. Their relationship was never the same after that. Eventually, she found her real father and now treats him better than the stepdad who had been there for her, despite the fact that her biological father had abandoned her.

there are some kids who wont act like this and will treat their step father the way they should but it aint worth it