African_brehda
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Play another man’s saved game brehs 
TK Kirkland "The worst thing you can do is to raise another man's child, its mental illness"
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Took 7 pages to get this phrase in……Play another man’s saved game brehs
I be surprised
valet
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Unpopular opinion but the black community would be in a better place if we promoted and embraced the step father lifestyle.
Guys should just be a father figure to the woman's child they are currently dealing with
It would stop a lot of the fatherless issues with the young men in our community.
Guys should just be a father figure to the woman's child they are currently dealing with
It would stop a lot of the fatherless issues with the young men in our community.
Seems like we would be better off promoting and embracing taking care of the kids you make first and foremost.
Detroit Wave
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Play another man saved game brehs
Ideally, but that ship has sailed a long time ago
Our women and men are a bit to polygamist and hypergamist.
Time to look for alternative solutions
So this same group of men that aren’t going to take care of their own children are going to embrace taking care of another man’s children?
#How
Fani Willis fan
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There's some bad single mamas at my church I would be bussing down if I wasn't in a visible relationship. The kids are just collateral damage, buy em some books. It's not that serious.
#BOTHSIDES
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Yep they said step kids tend to be abused significantly more
UnQuantized
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Wouldn't use those words
Still, I will simply never be a step father in any circumstance
There are no conditions or circumstances that would make it acceptable to me
Still, I will simply never be a step father in any circumstanceThere are no conditions or circumstances that would make it acceptable to me
-I laugh at this shyt because it's stupid as fukk trying to blame everything you don't like on mental illness.
-A child doesn't have to be yours nor do you need to pretend to be their real dad to set boundaries & be invested in their future. People wanna let ego get involved instead of playing their position.
DatNkkaCutty
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Everything u just mentioned I've seen REAL dads go thru.When you take care of another man’s kid, you’re basically accepting that you will never come first, second, third or fourth…. Youre gonna be an afterthought for the rest of your days… you’re gonna be emotional support for the mother, a wallet for the kids and a resource… you’re gonna go to work and bust your ass to support a kid who might not even respect you all while you risk having your woman cheating on you with her kids REAL father (if he’s still in the picture)
No thanks
Of course there are exceptions to this, but it plays out this way in many cases more than you think
If u ask me, you're a worse sucka when your real kids don't respect you, dont fuk with you, and quick to abandon u when u get old.
TK speaking from a place of bitterness as a nkka w/ multiple kids by multiple women. I promise you, he probably got issues with some of his offspring (definitely a bm or 2). He sounds like a scorn nkka knowin another man is knockin down his kids mother, and likely leading a child of his in some manner. He's throwing subliminals toward someone in his life. I know these types, cuz I done hit A LOT of nkkas baby moms. BD always hatin.
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