PartyHeart
All Star
my post wasn't about what women want or don't want. it was about what would constitute a conquest for women. I never said women don't enjoy sex. I never said they shouldn't have sex either. all i said is that a woman sleeping with many men is not "conquests" the same way men sleeping with many women is and so the two shouldn't be compared.
EDIT:the word conquest implies that you had to fight or put in work to get it. that's why i say it's not the same.
Something isn't a conquest because you had to put in work to get it. A conquest is merely the act of attaining something/winning something that you wanted. If a girl wanted sex with a guy and got it, that is a conquest to her, it doesn't matter what he was thinking on his end. I could just as easily say men sleeping around is not a conquest the way a woman sleeping around is because we can be sure that a key element to men sleeping around is bragging rights from other men, whereas women doing it are surely doing it strictly for themselves.
Regardless, the point is you want to define what a conquest is for all women so it can benefit whatever bs double standard you want to push. Doesn't work that way. You can speak for men if you want, but leave it to women to speak for ourselves. Because 9 times out of 10 any woman would read what y'all write on the coli and find it incredibly inaccurate.
Live and let live. Women can do whatever they want. At the same time, i can be with whoever i want and if i don't want to be with a chick who had multiple partners because it's unattractive to me
That's great, I feel the same way about any man I take seriously. However a gang of dudes in here will tell me I'm lying and I want a whore for a husband because of conquest, and keys and locks, and all other manner of nonsense.