This Whole Women in Their Prime Thing seems like some 1960s B.S
- Thread starter KinksandCoils
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KinksandCoils
African American Queen
A person wanting to start a family by a certain age doesn't have to mean she is dried up.
I used to say that I wanted kids and my career by 25. That had nothing to do with me feeling like I'm going to be old by then.
Fair enough.
I couldn't speak about how a woman is going to feel at a given age.
But why did you used to say that you wanted kids at 25?
KinksandCoils
African American Queen
Cause I didn't want to be taking care of kids in my late 40s and early 50s.
Malik
Superstar
One of the great things about being a man is we have no biological clock. We have societal pressure to find a wife and have a family....sure....but, biologically, we could wait until we were 40 if we wanted. Of course, the options get thinner.....but, women actually HAVE to find someone before 35 or else they risk having a complicated pregnancy. Not us.
I'm on grind mode. Frankly, I can't see myself settling down until like 35. Honestly, if I never had kids, I don't think I'd be that upset. I got enough nephews and neices
I'm on grind mode. Frankly, I can't see myself settling down until like 35. Honestly, if I never had kids, I don't think I'd be that upset. I got enough nephews and neices
Malik
Superstar
okay. Hard to believe that a 30+ year old man will have much in common with a 22 year old, but that's cool. We are talking COMMITMENT here and not someone to "smash." Keep in mind that this theory is pretty backwards because at 22, very few girls are ready for someone more serious and so you're risking putting a ring on it and her leaving you or cheating saying she needs to explore different options...hence, her getting more "mileage" as you guys would put it, during your relationship as opposed to it being her past. Just giving a different perspective. I was a virgin until 21, so sure, maybe at 22 I would have been "more sexually" attractive having had fewer experiences, but mentally I definitely wouldn't have been there to give a 30+ year old man any kind of meaningful relationship.
Dudes in here aint trying to hear that. You spoiling the fantasy ma
They just want a broad with a big butt and a small waist. Not realizing, 22 year old girls want to have fun. They have the whole life in front of them. They haven't figured out what they want to do or who they are yet. She still wants to go out and live life. She does not want to be cuffed FOR LIFE to your old ass
She still wants to go out and do things, whereas you working 60 hours a week and just want to rest when you get home 
I personally think the women in here should listen to people like @kevm3 He's giving you the real without being malicious about it. In your 30s, you have less options and it would be prudent for you to find someone while you're younger. But as long as you relax some of the unrealistic standards you might have had when you were younger, you'll find someone. I know me personally, when i get in my 30s, i would definitely want a woman closer to my age than some 22 year old girl that i know i wouldn't be able to keep up with.
Malik
Superstar
Dudes thinking they gonna get a broad 10-15 years younger than them gonna end up like Faizon Love in Couple's Retreat 
You saw bruh went back to his ex-wife at the end
You saw bruh went back to his ex-wife at the end
StickStickly
Superstar
Did you get left at the alter or something
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
haha the responses are funny - especially when they say that the females in here are delusional and they're sitting here thinking that they'll be with "hot" younger chicks all their life...not to shyt on anyone, but I'm kind of assuming some of these dudes don't even have their own place or a job where they're making a killing - so what is someone 10 years your junior going to be doing with you if you're not even taking care of her like that - she likes your personality?! lol riiiiight - she's going to leave your ass for the next dude her age with abs and a cute smile.Dudes in here aint trying to hear that. You spoiling the fantasy ma
They just want a broad with a big butt and a small waist. Not realizing, 22 year old girls want to have fun. They have the whole life in front of them. They haven't figured out what they want to do or who they are yet. She still wants to go out and live life. She does not want to be cuffed FOR LIFE to your old ass
I personally think the women in here should listen to people like @kevm3 He's giving you the real without being malicious about it. In your 30s, you have less options and it would be prudent for you to find someone while you're younger. But as long as you relax some of the unrealistic standards you might have had when you were younger, you'll find someone. I know me personally, when i get in my 30s, i would definitely want a woman closer to my age than some 22 year old girl that i know i wouldn't be able to keep up with.
StickStickly
Superstar
Dudes in here aint trying to hear that. You spoiling the fantasy ma
They just want a broad with a big butt and a small waist. Not realizing, 22 year old girls want to have fun. They have the whole life in front of them. They haven't figured out what they want to do or who they are yet. She still wants to go out and live life. She does not want to be cuffed FOR LIFE to your old ass
But the men here think that if a woman wants to go out she's restless and ruined by feminism . And these 20 year olds who don't want to settle down with 32 year old men just "don't know what they want" because they're women
well this was bluntStickStickly
Superstar
I'm assuming a lot of these men haven't met women or only know women to sleep with them.The things they assume can't come out of someone who sees people in real life
