I've been married for 19 years now.
I have 250k in my 401k I've saved thru two decades of sacrifice and commitment to principles. My wife "might" have 10-15k in hers.
And because I watched it happen to my work breh, I know for a fact, that she'd get to take half of the money I saved over 20 years if we fell out.
Even tho she's more educated and makes pretty close to what I make, she spends her money on clothes and shoes and whatever else.
But hell, even if we don't split up, were' both going to have to live off it anyway because she hasn't saved anything so no matter what I take an L end of the day.