No! Bf- turned- husband.Umm maybe it’s late and I’m tripping but did u just say ol girl had a husband and a bf? And the bf got her to submit to him by fuccking her violently in the ass??? please tell me I read the spoiler story wrong.
Not gonna read all that but you having a problem with me saying all white people are not bad shows how retarded you are.Now it makes sense why you’re caping so hard for this CAC. Just because he’s raising a biracial girl and teaches her black history, it doesn’t absolve him from being a racist. You want me to believe a CAC that’s grown up around a racist family doesn’t still have those tendencies? I don’t care if he has cut them off or called them out.
The moment he tried to make “black racism” comparative to white racism, that was all I needed to know. If he truly understood this white supremacist system, he would never never have made that false equivalence.
That’s what I’ve noticed especially with you foreign blacks, you’re so easily impressed with CACs adopting any little bit of black culture, you automatically thinks that gives him a pass.
“oh look. Chad dances to Afro beats and speaks three words of Yoruba. Let’s make him a chief and raise him above us whilst we dress him in a dashiki.”
Date em don’t marry emAnother thing that makes this fukked up is that everyone is saying "never date a single mother". Obviously, the chances of this happening are WAY higher with single moms since most single mothers care a lot more about getting a provider husband to raise the kid.
But it can still happen otherwise. I will make a post later.
Aren’t you a woman??My old coworkers were all versions of this guy. Everyday I had to listen to them whine about their cheating wives and unhappy lives. This is why I laugh at the posts here about white men.
YesAren’t you a woman??
U gotta throw these hoes down the steps from time to timeTbh, its so unique to the couple/ situation that i can't advise, but i think physically works best bc that's where men excel. Also, i think this is a technique men are intended to share amongst themselves, so all i can tell you is how it looks from the other side and give you an example.
So, i knew a girl and her bf, we can call them Young Kamala, very dominant socially, and Young Doug (Emhoff, her rl husband). They were born into loosely the same class (upper middle), but by the time i knew them, he seemed more 'working class.' Though they went into the same field, she went to a better professional school and had a better career trajectory. In public, she appeared "better than him," so much so that i noted it at the time to my man, like, " Thats not gonna go well." If even i noted the vibes, 'Doug' must have attempted something psychological that ultimately proved ineffective.
Welp. My boy asserted himself physically and it apparently worked. One night, we're all hanging out and i noticed they were as lovey dovey as us, which was new. She told me why later: he had, um, forced himself onto a road not often taken. She looked lovingly at the bed as she recounted the tale (no pun intended).
I went through many visible reactions in response to her story, ranging from to to to to to to .
End result: they went on to marry, buy property, and live happily ever after.
Idk if it was just the once or if she requires periodic tune ups. But it seemed to me that feeling his full strength viscerally got her in line in a way they both (again, apparently) enjoyed. You could say she was 'scared straight.'
A little fear can be a good thing.
Now, ofc, she also could have turned around and reported his ass to the damn police. He must have known her well enough to predict a likely response.
Which is why i say, it depends- on the man, the woman, and the relationship they create together.
@Hennessypapi or anybody else, can you explain this from the man's perspective? Im in Plato's cave trynna explain a thing i cannot see.