This Dating Scene Right Now.... It's Ridiculous.... I Haven't Met Many Women That Are Interesting!

[Tflasha]

women these days have the personality of a walnut

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

We had a thread about a woman complaining about boring men, and y’all got mad, and called them the stable men. What kind of hobbies and lifestyle do you expect women to have? Most people go to work, hangout with friends, and run errands.

 

[Brandsdale]

get off them apps breh

 

[NO-BadAzz]

What's going on?

Alot of women tell me oh it's so nice hearing me speak and talk about various topics.
But when they talk, these same people got nothing to say. Any many categorizes themselves as Sapiosexuals.

I mean most women nowadays, the majority of them are not interesting to speak to at all!!!
I met this one girl, ah man I wanted to like her because she was so sexy, had a banging body, and was into so many things I was into.
But having a conversation with her... OMG...

Are you having the same experiences?
Like I have no problem getting a girl, but damn I want the mind too not just the body.

I know a few women at work that I can have conversations with, but they ain't attractive at alllll.... They look like tubs of cottage cheese.

What's going on here?
Anyone here in their 60s? How was it back in the days???

When you find something that's decent C minus, all I got for you is to mold her into the way you want her to be for you. I hate to say this, but it's like training something to operate how you want them/it to be.

Only way you will have peace

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[Dad]

I remember those days .

You gotta be more observant, breh.
If you see the convo is going in that direction just change it up

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Tiktok brain

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Most women, you have to build their personality.

A lot of them will just kind of take after yours. Common knowledge. It is what it is.

 

[Brandsdale]

Ghana 2026 still

 

[Brandsdale]

Most women, you have to build their personality.

A lot of them will just kind of take after yours. Common knowledge. It is what it is.

find a bytch that got one

 

[DJSmooth]

Have most women in history ever been "interesting" ?

Are most people in general "interesting" ?

 

[Ohene]

Breh I gave up dating to focus on my self and $$$ and it was the best decision I made all year. Being single is like being in the hyperbolic time chamber. You can improve way more than if you was arguing and fighting with a chick.

I have many bad days alone but shyt would have been way worse with a girlfriend nagging or pushing to break up due to it

All these girls boring out of the hundreds a nikka met only 5 or so were intriguing and 2 were wife material. That’s 1 every 10 year average

I would agree

Lot of these women have no conversation skills and nothing going on. You try to talk to them and its honestly like pulling teeth.

Unless youre heavy into tiktok and social media you wont even know what they’re talking about a lot of the time

 

[Ohene]

lol low key, a lot of women are now walking algorithm they don't even realize it.

Great way to put it
All they do is regurgitate bullshyt they see online

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

you have made many threads about drinking pee. be the change you want to see!

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

This goes for men and women but most people’s lives are very ordinary. Unless you’re traveling every month, reading a new book every other week, have extensive hobbies the life is only about the daily grind. Go to work, to the gym, raise a kid/kids, chill at home. Then the matter of age arises.

So being interesting is all relative. Most of the time a woman just slots in to your lifestyle. At least that’s the way I’ve seen it go down.

Now if you’re talking personality that’s a different ballgame. A lot of people have the personality of a BiC ballpen not just women. You can probably blame texting and social media for that.

As @Apollo Creed says, if she’s not lighting up when she sees you move on and find one that does. Cause that’s genuine. Can’t fake that. Peace and blessings in your journey.