Thinking about leaving my Fiance

[Claudex]

@Juicy you are entitled to your feelings. You don't have to justify them and they don't have to be excused.

That said you should try to understand where they're coming from. Has he given you are reason to doubt him, is your gut telling you that you shouldn't trust him or is this about you?

Figuring out the cause and understanding where these feelings are coming from is where you'll find the answer to your question.

But once you say things out loud you can't take them back so think very carefully about what you say to him.

You sound like you'd be a good mother

 

[concise]

Good job, @Juicy

Putting trust in another person and your life in another person's hands takes a ridiculous amount faith ... an almost stupid kind.

Trust no one. #gmb

 

[mamba]

I knew you were going to do this

Make sure to tell him you got your advice to separate from the coli

He will be joining the Coli, soon.

 

[aliG]

I dont wanna drag her day down. I shouldn't have even made this thread.

what are friends for? come on. you know better than this.

 

[Remote]

Hi Juicy...

 

[Ashley Banks]

@Juicy i dnt mean to laugh u my bff and all, but this thread and the responses are funny. Honestly ur just scared dnt take coli messages seriously that's only gonna make things worse. Plus u and dude been together for years; who else u gonna find to put up with the no marriage, no kids, and no booty baggage :mjlupecry:

Thanks breh.

 

[Ashley Banks]

LOL! He should be afraid of you giving him an STD, too. When was the last time you were tested @Juicy ?

I'll get tested before we get married if he wants me to.

 

[Dwolf]

I'll get tested before we get married if he wants me to.

So did you tell him?

 

[Ashley Banks]

So did you tell him?

No

 

[Dwolf]

No

You should at least tell him you are getting cold feet and are worried. Communication is important.

 

[Versa]

Please don't let these degenerates, trolls, gimmick accounts, virgins, and unintelligent posters who look up to Lil Wayne like a father figure influence your relatonship decisions.

You're either ready for a committed relationship or not. It's as simple as that. The "all men cheat" thing is dumb. It's just said so men who lack self control and true love for their woman can justify their unfaithfulness, and its also an excuse women make who are unable to accept their man doesn't truly value them.

If he TRULY loves and values you, he will not cheat. If he doesn't, well, get ready to share that dikk.

 

[TELL ME YA CHEESIN FAM?]

that imaginary fiance wont care

 

[bzb]

I should have known better than to say anything about it on the coli. I forget that women don't get positive advice here just insulted. If a guy had made this thread they would be understanding of why he's nervous about it but since I'm a woman Its wrong.

don't make this about gender. you started the thread by saying this....

After reading Chief's thread about cheating, I don't think it would be a good idea to get married.............
So I think I'm just going to wait for him to get off work and tell him that I think we should break up.

this isn't about cold feet. you're not even 23 and had multiple engagements. this is really about your maturity level and decision making skills. think about it... how do you say yes to more than two men before 23 and then call it off....




you just ain't ready for something like this. do yourself a favor and don't waste your time or his...

 

[Token]

speak to token. she will probably help ya. shes like your thunder buddy.

#Juken4Life

I dont wanna drag her day down. I shouldn't have even made this thread.

just pm me if you need to. I give awesome advice. Ask @AgentGrey.

 

[Zero]

You bytch. Even when a nikka is doing right by you you're contemplating leaving his ass on a potential technicality. Then y'all complain about good men. fukk outta here.

Man I can feel the hatred from this reply all the way over here