Thinking about leaving my Fiance

[Ashley Banks]

don't make this about gender. you started the thread by saying this....



this isn't about cold feet. you're not even 23 and had multiple engagements. this is really about your maturity level and decision making skills. think about it... how do you say yes to more than two men before 23 and then call it off....




you just ain't ready for something like this. do yourself a favor and don't waste your time or his...

I think I'm ready. I'll be fine.

 

[mamba]

this isn't about cold feet. you're not even 23 and had multiple engagements. this is really about your maturity level and decision making skills. think about it... how do you say yes to more than two men before 23 and then call it off....




you just ain't ready for something like this. do yourself a favor and don't waste your time or his...

It's pretty clear @Juicy isn't mature.

She's talked about not wanting marriage or children, yet she continues to say yes to nikkas when they propose.

 

[bzb]

I think I'm ready. I'll be fine.

good luck. if this engagement actually turns into a marriage just wait a few years before having a kid. that way you'll really know if marriage is really for you and there won't be a kid caught in the middle who becomes a statistic.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

You sound like you'd be a good mother

 

[mamba]

@Juicy I hope he leaves you and find a woman who truly makes him happy.

nikka already ain't getting p*ssy because you wanna hold out till marriage, and as if that isn't already asking too much of him, that nikka at work right now thinking about how much he loves you and you're here contemplating leaving him because of some shyt that COULD or MIGHT happen on some minority report type shyt.

I hope you don't get into cars.

Some of y'all females are truly fukking retarded... What more do you want from dude?? I hope he leaves your stupid happily ever after story chasing ass.

And nikkas tried to make me out to be a demon c00n when I said a lot of these chicks have underdeveloped minds.

@Colicat

 

[Ashley Banks]

good luck. if this engagement actually turns into a marriage just wait a few years before having a kid. that way you'll really know if marriage is really for you and there won't be a kid caught in the middle who becomes a statistic.

Thanks breh.

 

[Ashley Banks]

It's pretty clear @Juicy isn't mature.

She's talked about not wanting marriage or children, yet she continues to say yes to nikkas when they propose.

Can you stop being an ass?

 

[mamba]

If you have any doubts about his ability to remain loyal, leave ASAP.

Plus if youre still not letting him smash, there's a decent chance that he has a piece on the side.

Of course that nikka has a piece on the side.

Either that or he's a and is using @Juicy as a beard.

So, her STD wish may come true one day.

 

[KOOL-AID]

Thanks breh.

Pm if u need me to come to ur wedding as the "I object" guy for a last minute escape option

 

[Grizz]

Seems like you need to talk to yourself firstly find out what you want out of life. The fact that it's not the first time means that you aren't sure yourself.

Secondly talk to you fiance, either way that conversation won't go down well;
1) If he's cheated at least you knew now before you had his surname
2) He'll be pissed off that the fact you've doubted him and hes been celibate to you the whole time

If you've never had a thought about someone that you consider about growing old with them, its not worth it. Its unfair for you and your partner especially after saying yes.

 

[the artist known az]

So you're gonna marry him?

 

[At30wecashout]

I'm not actually going to leave. im just nervous about it. I should have known better than to say anything about it on the coli. I forget that women don't get positive advice here just insulted. If a guy had made this thread they would be understanding of why he's nervous about it but since I'm a woman Its wrong.

Look, ive always had this feeling when I read your posts that there was insecurities underlying. However, you can't turn this into a "women won't get fair treatment"
narrative. EVERY guy who says some sideways shyt has been gone in on. You been here a long time, lets quit playin'.

Think long and hard about what you are feeling, cause these thoughts and ideas usually lead to subtle self sabotage, possibly pushing a situation in which he hurts you, or
more likely, you destroy him for absolutely no reason. Then, every woman he meets down the line will have you to thank for how fukked in the head he is. Any man that
is willing to wife you and isn't even pressuring you for sex is investing in the future. If you inject negative thoughts, you may just be thinking now, but you will act
in unexpected and irrational ways down the line. Nip that shyt in the but, homie. You might destroy a good thing.

 

[Kenny West]

Someone get that nikka a drink! He dodged the bullet!!



Real talk I'mma take a hit of this weed in honor of that man getting his freedom back. you should break up with him tonight, just in time for the weekend.

What a joyous occasion

 

[illadope]

Im just thinking out loud. But I guess women aren't allowed to have negative thoughts. Dudes on here say theyll leave their girl over the thought of them cheating but im so wrong for thinking the same.

Usually the guys that say that arent even in relationships

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

After reading Chief's thread about cheating, I don't think it would be a good idea to get married. I don't know if those guys know about how common stds are or maybe they just don't care but I think about it a lot. and it's kind of scary knowing that even if you don't sleep with a bunch of people there's still a chance you could end up with an incurable disease just because the man youre with is a scumbag. My best friend's husband cheated on her and gave her HIV and Herpes while she was pregnant (I think I've talked about this before on here idk) and that really scared me. I honestly think about that a lot and I just really don't think it's smart for me to do it.

So I think I'm just going to wait for him to get off work and tell him that I think we should break up.

I talked to my brother in law (sister's husband) about it and he said he doesn't think my Fiance would cheat but I think he was just saying that to make me feel better. What do you guys think?

all men dont cheat. dont listen to these clowns.