Thinking about leaving my Fiance
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Pm if u need me to come to ur wedding as the "I object" guy for a last minute escape option
Yo ol mark, so much for you taking time to get things in perspective :/
@Juicy How you doing luv?
Listen...
If you have reasons to be doubtful then explore them. If you're not sure about something then keep it simple, make a pros and cons list. Doesn't take much work or time, so just sit down and try to list it out the reasons for your nerves.
If you find there are no reasons to doubt, then you must learn to let go of the idea that you can save yourself from a pain you can't know whether it will come or not. Baby everybody wants TO NOT BE cheated on, or to get an STD. However, every relationship is part gamble ma. Much like living actually, I mean, how do you know you're not gonna die tomorrow and leave your fiancé's emotions in shambles? That's something you just can't know.
My point is, there's always ways to infer and deduct things (like through a pros and cons list), but nobody actually really knows the future. So until shyt happens you gotta learn to not let your worries get you nervous, just like I'm sure you're not nervously worried about dying tomorrow either.
Above all luv, learn to accept that which you have no control over. By that I mean, knowing that you can't control certain things should mean that you don't have to worry too much about them.
That's why faith (and I ain't just talking about God here) is so important to most people on earth, because we realize we can't know everything and so we leave some things to chance just so we can be at peace. That's maturity.
I hope you have a happy marriage my lil' black goddess.
Listen...If you have reasons to be doubtful then explore them. If you're not sure about something then keep it simple, make a pros and cons list. Doesn't take much work or time, so just sit down and try to list it out the reasons for your nerves.
If you find there are no reasons to doubt, then you must learn to let go of the idea that you can save yourself from a pain you can't know whether it will come or not. Baby everybody wants TO NOT BE cheated on, or to get an STD. However, every relationship is part gamble ma. Much like living actually, I mean, how do you know you're not gonna die tomorrow and leave your fiancé's emotions in shambles? That's something you just can't know.
My point is, there's always ways to infer and deduct things (like through a pros and cons list), but nobody actually really knows the future. So until shyt happens you gotta learn to not let your worries get you nervous, just like I'm sure you're not nervously worried about dying tomorrow either.
Above all luv, learn to accept that which you have no control over. By that I mean, knowing that you can't control certain things should mean that you don't have to worry too much about them.
That's why faith (and I ain't just talking about God here) is so important to most people on earth, because we realize we can't know everything and so we leave some things to chance just so we can be at peace. That's maturity.
I hope you have a happy marriage my lil' black goddess.
Klyk21
Hate is Rising, Love is Dying....
its her LIIIFFFE Mr. NonchalantDamn. nikka hit her with the two peice.
No condom? nikkas not screening themselves and their partners?
go ahead and call that off. Yall not gonna work. Can already tell
BoogieDown23
MY SON HAS COOKIES!
Isn't this the same person that said men aren't needed
onelastdeath
Banned
Lol I did take time nikka, I did what I needed to do
Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
of course. I was just feeling a little nervous about it. I talked to my dad about it he made me feel better
onelastdeath
Banned
I know you said you're a virgin, you got a dude in 2014 to marry you without giving it up?
After reading Chief's thread about cheating, I don't think it would be a good idea to get married. I don't know if those guys know about how common stds are or maybe they just don't care but I think about it a lot. and it's kind of scary knowing that even if you don't sleep with a bunch of people there's still a chance you could end up with an incurable disease just because the man youre with is a scumbag. My best friend's husband cheated on her and gave her HIV and Herpes while she was pregnant (I think I've talked about this before on here idk) and that really scared me. I honestly think about that a lot and I just really don't think it's smart for me to do it.
So I think I'm just going to wait for him to get off work and tell him that I think we should break up.
I talked to my brother in law (sister's husband) about it and he said he doesn't think my Fiance would cheat but I think he was just saying that to make me feel better. What do you guys think?
Has he showed signs that he may be a cheater that in any way? Have you caught him in anything? Have you found something out?. If not and you're going by an anonymous nikkas thread on the net, then this is stupid.
You could be throwing away something good based on an internet forum.....
Ms.CuriousCat
All Star
only weak ass nikkas catch HIV I been fukkin hookers for years RAW and ain't shyt happen to me. I'm the GOAT human being though.
Slaimon Khan Shah
SLAIMON KHAN SHAH = SHAOLIN MONK/S OF ISLAAM
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
And I thought you didn't wanna get married anyway, how you have a fiance
REALLY DOE!!
She always talmbat how she don't wanna get married...wholetime she had a nicca on deck!
Whatever...baby guh you dumped him?
You no longer want him?
He no longer hired?
you say that he been fired?
Kenny West
Veteran
fukk
cancel the bottle service
take a chance OP...maybe your fiance will only give you one of the two diseases you mentioned.....