The whole GMB thing is ridiculous

[K.O.N.Y]

GMB is one of the c00nish sambo sam movements

promote destruction of black families brehs

 

[the bossman]

This type of marriage means you simp'd your way into marriage. There were red flags that were ignored. She had her arms folded from the beginning saying "make me happy" and the guy took the bait.

Yea it's no way she became that way magically only after getting married. I bet she had spoiled brat tendencies from jump

 

[THE MACHINE]

you're missing the big picture
the structure of marriage and divorce court makes this so
once the guy is married, the women gains access to half his assets and many men follow the happy wife happy life monikor because they don't want their wives waking up one day saying
their unhappy and raping them in court
once you sign the papers, you raise the stakes of the relationship in the woman's favor

Like I said, if thats a worry going in (her liking the lifestyle more than you), you should not marry her. If you think she'll happier with half of your assets and another man than your combined assets and you, then you should not even consider marrying her. Im sure it can be hard to consider but there are usually red flags.
- Does she ever want to go places where you guys dont spend money
- Does she ever ask/invest in your dreams
- Does she have a career plan
- Who are the females she "looks up to"
Those are just a few of the simpler questions that need to be asked

 

[The Mad Titan]

Male or female

Both

 

[VertigoKnight]

I finally got divorced this year after a 12-year relationship and 7 yr marriage

I don't hate women, I love good women, so that incel shyt is a dumb accusation.

But the peace of mind I have now is unmatched. went on a solo holiday to Hong Kong earlier this year and I forgot just how freeing this shyt is. Answering to nobody, I thank the lord I do not have kids. And that my ex wife was level headed enough to know we have assets together that meant it would be dumb to hit that nuclear button.

Other men are not so lucky and get damn near destroyed if they have more assets than their wife.

I very likely will not get married again. It took a year and a half to get divorced and cost money but again me and my ex discussed that we wanted to keep costs low and not give our hard-earned money away to lawyers.

Now I'm officially divorced, have a solid selection of lady friends. At some point, I may get into a relationship again but I'll hold off on marriage.

I'm telling you being unhappy sitting in a marriage is not the wave. That shyt will lead to bitterness.

 

[ORDER_66]

GMB is one of the c00nish sambo sam movements

promote destruction of black families brehs

Last time I checked WOMEN initiate most of the divorces in america... who's really destroying the black family again??!?

I mean what's the point of being married if she's just gonna divorce your ass later. that piece of legal paper, that ring, meant nothing to her...

 

[Deep_Black_Conscious]

Like I said, if thats a worry going in (her liking the lifestyle more than you), you should not marry her. If you think she'll happier with half of your assets and another man than your combined assets and you, then you should not even consider marrying her. Im sure it can be hard to consider but there are usually red flags.
- Does she ever want to go places where you guys dont spend money
- Does she ever ask/invest in your dreams
- Does she have a career plan
- Who are the females she "looks up to"
Those are just a few of the simpler questions that need to be asked

You're still missing the point

 

[Tryna Makit]

I dont think it's being scared. Just that they dont know how

...Or some of us simply have no interest in it..... *Raises hand*

Not everybody cut out to be some family guy...

 

[Youseenmywork]

Some of y'all need to goggle the marriage laws in your state then come back to this thread ....

No disrespect to Cali we know how y'all give it up...enter Dr.Dre

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

@number21

Table 3. Marriage outcomes by age 46 by gender, race/ethnicity and educational attainment

Percent ever divorced

Bachelor's degree or higher

26.5%

Less than high school diploma

47.8%

Marriage and divorce: patterns by gender, race, and educational attainment : Monthly Labor Review: U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistics​

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[ISO]

Pick the wrong woman, brehs

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Hell I give side eye to marriage too and I’m a woman. Ion even know where to begin to attempt to fix this stuff. Actually that’s a lie I do know. But I also know people won’t wanna hear it so...

Oooh Victoria Monet got new music ya’ll. It’s a whole bop!

“I’m all outta love
You gave it away
I’m hoping that experience can get u to change.”

 

[THE MACHINE]

You're still missing the point

Not really breh, people have to take selecting a spouse seriously. If there are glaring red flags dont enter into a marriage. I agree the court system is gonna screw the man over bad and could lead to a woman tricking a man into marriage to split his bucks. But there are usually red flags that were ignored. Brehs just gotta tell these women straight up "sorry, you aint the one." And hopefully say it before they have a child with them.

Marriages are good, but dont let societal pressure, family pressure, significant other pressure make you enter into a marriage where there were obvious signs.

 

[Canon]

Pick the wrong woman, brehs

A very easy mistake to make if were being honest

 

[semicko82]

GMB and HOH were funny in the beginning but now they sound like something an incel would say.

With the shaming tactics