The rich gets richer and poor gets poorer dynamic is reflected in modern dating game as well

[Jasonmask]

Just focus on fat bytches, be the breh who takes care of the fat friend that is always part of a pack of females in club.

These fat hoes ego inflated af rn because too many nikkas do this. You got a better chance at average to bad women now.

 

[SNG]

Little to no change. Even back in the day you needed a stable job to get a woman. Now losers wanna stay at home jerking off and thinking they deserve a woman. I think the only thing that has changed is today's men have an entitled mentality. They think they deserve p*ssy just for existing. When in reality that has never been the case. Men have always had to compete to the right to mate. Women compete for which man they want. That's the difference.

dikk has always been guaranteed to women. They just fight over which one. p*ssy has never been guaranteed to a man. We've always had to work for it.

That’s the issue though both men and women’s standards have gotten to high of what they deserve. If men want p*ssy there’s always a hood ray chick or fat chick you can find that will take no time. But the quality ones are always more effort and for those ones to smash in the same frequency as the fat or hood rat chick then yes money and resources are more at play.

 

[Swagnificent]

You know what I confused reproduction with sex.

It's the same thing biologically speaking. Birth control is a recent invention. For most of human history if you had sex a child being born was likely.

 

[Json]

Do you agree or disagree with the premise of the thread that average dudes in previous decades fared slightly better in the dating world than their modern counterpart
Or do you think there has been zero changes in this regard

There was no dating. Families usually just set up their kids. Modern dating is only like 40ish years old and online dating is 20ish.

Most people are just bumping their heads figuring it out

 

[Iverson_64]

We’re getting rid of dumb coli narratives today

Older Coli brehs still praise the idea of chasing after women in their 20's so is that any surprise?

Obviously, this eventually balances out when men get established usually around their late 20's.

You can't complain about young men "struggling" to date when you yourself are contributing to the issue by chasing 25 year old women when you're old enough to be her father.

Also, recent data shows that the average age that men lose their virginity is still in their teens so this "rising sexlessness" is still quite exaggerated and it's more so driven by the youth being more chronically online and having less friend groups compared to youth in the past.

 

[Swagnificent]

How the fukk did people actually dap this

It's scientific fact. https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success

 

[Taadow]

True. Social media has only shined a light on a reality that always existed. Kinda like how police brutality always existed. Only thing that's changed is now everyone has a camera and can upload it in real time. Back in the day you needed a news station to run it. Now everyone is their own news station.

I'm glad you said this.

Now - Police Brutality ain't ever gonna go away. Why?
Because brutality is what Police are trained to use in..."certain situations".

It doesn't matter how much a nicca gets his money up or improves his life, he is still gonna be a nicca living in The Scope.

 

[Devilinurear]

It's the same thing biologically speaking. Birth control is a recent invention. For most of human history if you had sex a child being born was likely.

People were also having sex with more then one person.

 

[Taadow]

Women are receptive now as they’ve always been but if no one approaches them then everyone loses. Men are just socially awkward cowards these days. There are so many lonely women out there due to ain’t shyt jerking off to JBO type men.

Women don't like Men

 

[SNG]

You'll be surprised how many men around the world get zero p*ssy.

Women share a minority of men.

Not in countries where the women outnumber the men. Like I get places like India or China. But in North and South America there are more women than men even in the UK as well.

 

[Swagnificent]

I think this may be moreso due to wars , hunting dangerous food that tends to kill us, and doing dangerous sht like working in an industrial steel plant or ore mine at age 14.

This is stuff women historical didn't do .

So I doubt its women being selective. Especially since most societies were arranging marriage for men until the 1800s.

No it's not. Read this scientific article. It's goes into detail as why this was the case: https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success

"a biological anthropologist, hypothesizes that somehow, only a few men accumulated lots of wealth and power, leaving nothing for others. These men could then pass their wealth on to their sons, perpetuating this pattern of elitist reproductive success. Then, as more thousands of years passed, the numbers of men reproducing, compared to women, rose again."

Basically rich dudes have always been holding all the p*ssy.

Look at Islamic countries. Why do you think they allow men to have 4 wives? Because in ancient times the most dominant men had all the women. Islam limited rich dudes to 4 women to give broke men a chance.

 

[SNG]

If you're attractive.

An ugly man isn't gonna have women keen to wanna talk to them. However, if you're attractive you can say anything and a woman will be lapping up every word. Physical attraction is the biggest factor in how women respond to men engaging them in random conversation.

FTR status and money are technically bigger attraction triggers but in those cases you don't even have to do the approaching. The women will approach you.

This all depends if a nikka looks like a super model and has no car and lives at home with his mama and broke then him approaching a chick looking like Beyonce, Kelly Rowland and Ashanti is going to be hard. But that same nikka will have a great time with the Sexy Red’s and the Sukihanna’s sexually.

 

[Swagnificent]

I’ll never understand this topic. There’s an even split of men and women. Women cannot be happy and coupled up long term if men aren’t. The only way this logic works is if one man has 2-3 women as side chicks to offset 2-3 other men having no one. While that may happen in our 20s and 30s, that’s not gonna be something that goes on for life. How many 40 and 50 yo side chicks are there Everyone eventually has to pair up.

At 40-50 she can't reproduce anymore so no one cares. What matters is who she's fukking in her reproductive prime. That's the true test. Not the 50 year old bum she settles for and doesn't even have sex with.

 

[TEH]

Women don't like Men

 

[karim]

If you are a catch,cream of the crop or just good at getting women, it's never been easier, you will be swimming in p*ssy and you don't even have to make to much effort either

However if you are average or below average, you are probably worse of than the average to below average dudes of previous generations
where there was no social media,reality TV and movies creating unrealistic expectations that men must meet.

The lack of internet,phones,video games,VR etc meant people actually had to develop social skills organically, get out of the house and meet people.

The rise in atheism has also removed one of the most common means of social gathering and community i.e churches, I would wager a lot of couples met eath other in church
back in the day


Even the data backs this up that men in general are lonelier than ever, have no friends, no place to go to socialise etc

Why Americans are lonelier and its effects on our health

According to U.S. Census Bureau surveys, Americans have been spending less time with friends and more time alone since before the pandemic, which has only intensified the sense of social isolation. Laurie Santos, a cognitive scientist and psychology professor at Yale University, joins John Yang...

www.pbs.org

This is what happens when you commodify interpersonal relationships. As soon as people began speaking of a "dating market" it was over.