The rich gets richer and poor gets poorer dynamic is reflected in modern dating game as well

[Ozymandeas]

I’ll never understand this topic. There’s an even split of men and women. Women cannot be happy and coupled up long term if men aren’t. The only way this logic works is if one man has 2-3 women as side chicks to offset 2-3 other men having no one. While that may happen in our 20s and 30s, that’s not gonna be something that goes on for life. How many 40 and 50 yo side chicks are there Everyone eventually has to pair up.

 

[SNG]

Man, if you met them you'd laugh lol. They don't have "mouth pieces".

If we're being superficial here, I agree 110%. A man with money who wants a woman only for her looks, gets the sexy woman who only wants the man for his money. That goes hand in hand.

Speaking on my own experiences.
I learned first hand that having a big bank doesn't necessarily get you more women or even sexy ones. The broke guys in my family all have a hand full of baby mamas + a girlfriend or wife and the ones who have money struggled with women.

I feel like that whole number rating system business is one of the reasons why people have low self-esteem. I feel like people miss the bigger picture when they do that.

My friends brother is the craziest nikka. Gotta dirty ass crib doesn’t give a fukk about his appearance a coke head doesn’t have his lisence or a vehicle has 3 kids and in his friend circle they look for him to get women. He is a natural charmer and I remember one time this dude fukked like 5 chicks in one day. He went to rehab and got kicked out because he got p*ssy up in there. I can’t even count how many times he’s cheated on his baby mama and they’ve broken up and she’s took him back.

 

[Goat poster]

yup. all around us we see average to even ugly dudes getting in relationships with decent-looking women. this thread and those like it read like the projection of an incel. i think a lot of dudes, either because they consume too much social media or are inundated with stories of the kardashians and other manufactured instathots, think the average woman is a vapid whore.

A big problem is a lot of those dudes WANT a Kardashian type chic.

They don't understand that they are not in that lane.

One of the biggest problems with social media is everyone thinks they have access to folks they fantasize about.

It's a problem with both men and women

The women will get fukked and chucked and the men will just get flat out rejected or used as a debit card for a "wish list"

If most people stayed in they lane they could kill...but human nature is to covet sooo

 

[KeysT]

I’ll never understand this topic. There’s an even split of men and women. Women cannot be happy and coupled up long term if men aren’t. The only way this logic works is if one man has 2-3 women as side chicks to offset 2-3 other men having no one. While that may happen in our 20s and 30s, that’s not gonna be something that goes on for life. How many 40 and 50 yo side chicks are there Everyone eventually has to pair up.

No they don’t. There are more women than men.
In dc there are 121,000 black men to 145,000 black women. Now take into account that black women have college degrees nationwide at a higher rate than black men and you can see their options for what they want drop even further. It’s not so much that there aren’t enough men to go around. Just the men most women desire.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Y'all complain about everything. Women don't want desperate men, they don't want to be a man's first option. They want the man who got shyt going on and too busy to give her attention. Incels are lame and boring

The man who prioritizes women at the bottom of his list gets more respect that men who prioritizes women as number one.

 

[Swagnificent]

If u suck with women in 1996
U gonna suck getting at women in 2023

Nothing has really changed tbh

True. Social media has only shined a light on a reality that always existed. Kinda like how police brutality always existed. Only thing that's changed is now everyone has a camera and can upload it in real time. Back in the day you needed a news station to run it. Now everyone is their own news station.

 

[Givethanks]

My friends brother is the craziest nikka. Gotta dirty ass crib doesn’t give a fukk about his appearance a coke head doesn’t have his lisence or a vehicle has 3 kids and in his friend circle they look for him to get women. He is a natural charmer and I remember one time this dude fukked like 5 chicks in one day. He went to rehab and got kicked out because he got p*ssy up in there. I don’t can’t even count how many times he’s cheated on his baby mama and they’ve broken up and she’s took him back.

I don't even know how to explain that lol.
There are so many variables to that.

all I can say is, it sounds like he lives his life for himself. He gets in where he fits, that's basically the secret to all of this.

 

[Swagnificent]

Do you agree or disagree with the premise of the thread that average dudes in previous decades fared slightly better in the dating world than their modern counterpart
Or do you think there has been zero changes in this regard

Little to no change. Even back in the day you needed a stable job to get a woman. Now losers wanna stay at home jerking off and thinking they deserve a woman. I think the only thing that has changed is today's men have an entitled mentality. They think they deserve p*ssy just for existing. When in reality that has never been the case. Men have always had to compete to the right to mate. Women compete for which man they want. That's the difference.

dikk has always been guaranteed to women. They just fight over which one. p*ssy has never been guaranteed to a man. We've always had to work for it.

 

[Swagnificent]

The vast majority of men worldwide are average looking, less than 6 foot, don’t earn anywhere near 6 figures yet they still get girlfriends, wives, kids, family. If you can’t get p*ssy, blame yourself

You'll be surprised how many men around the world get zero p*ssy.

Women share a minority of men.

 

[SNG]

There are so many variables to that.

all I can say is, it sounds like he lives his life for himself. He gets in where he fits, that's basically the secret to all of this.

He has the gift to gab. He knows how to sell water to a well. I always said he would be great at sales if he didn’t have such a destructive behaviour. But yea he lives for all his vices.

 

[Swagnificent]

Since the beginning
How did you come to that conclusion?

Genetic testing. https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success

Most males in almost every species don't reproduce. Sex is a privilege for men. Not a right.

 

[Swagnificent]

Average dudes back then didn’t have limiting beliefs and were out macking hoes


Average dude in 2022 is worried about his height and hypergamy

Basically modern men are more weak now than past generation

Wrong. The average man today is simply less horny because of estrogenic chemicals in the food that have lowered testosterone levels as well as the easy access to porn.

If testosterone levels were back to what they used to be and there was no internet porn you would see guys talking to women everywhere. The male population has just been neutered. It's all part of a plan.

 

[Devilinurear]

Genetic testing. https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-reproductive-success

Most males in almost every species don't reproduce. Sex is a privilege for men. Not a right.

You know what I confused reproduction with sex.

 

[Swagnificent]

Honestly, it's crazy how many dudes can't have simple and engaging conversations with women. Talking to a working woman is pretty easy honestly.

If you're attractive.

An ugly man isn't gonna have women keen to wanna talk to them. However, if you're attractive you can say anything and a woman will be lapping up every word. Physical attraction is the biggest factor in how women respond to men engaging them in random conversation.

FTR status and money are technically bigger attraction triggers but in those cases you don't even have to do the approaching. The women will approach you.

 

[Blessings]

To succeed you cant have doubts or think of failing. You gotta go out there and risk it.

Nowadays it's too much info from everybody online. It makes guys become too cautious and analytical.
At that point it's very easy to just watch all the stuff that these women say and quit.

But it's all a lie. Regular people are dating, fukking, and getting married everyday

/thread