"The reason why most women think men are trash, is because they're all sleeping with the same guys"-UK Sis

[Scustin Bieburr]

It's their biological imperitive that contributes to that.

Elaborate on that.

The way I see it, our culture celebrates excess and youthful ignorance. American culture encourages risk, gluttony, and irrational behavior because all of these things are profitable.
Men are shamed for not being bona-fide p*ssy gettas

Women are (now) being shamed for not 'going through a ho phase'

The overall effect is anxiety on both ends to get as much sex as possible before 'settling down'

The top percent of men that have all the attributes most women want(conventionally good looking, athletic, 6figures, 6feet, 6 weeks PTO/business owner) are eating well in this state of affairs. I think both men AND women deep down just desire a stable relationship built on mutual love and respect, and I think its in a young man's nature to be very sexual, but he can be that way with a woman he has sexual compatability with as well as emotional and social compatibility. When I was in my 20s I had a woman with a high sex drive who could never say no, and generally made moves on me. I also dated one later on that was the opposite. In both instances I still had a good relationship that eventually ended. Women instinctively want the best men they can get. I think that's in their nature. They want to know that the man they're with meets their needs and could meet the need of a child if that happens, but these days women make their own money so it's less about finding a man who will do all the work and make the money and more about finding someone that's willing to meet her half way. We only hear about the gold diggers because they're the most vocal minority on the internet. The people in actually stable relationships aren't online talking about "if they don't do x then they not the one!"

I'm gonna edit in the video she made on how hookup culture hurts women too.

 

[Shadow King]

We THINK we're too civilized but nature is working

Nature is working but our advancements create consequences/complications that didn't exist before.

Meant to multi-quote. My mistake.

What I was getting at is you don't have to be this proverbial 20% that gets thrown out all the time to end up with a Woman that YOU deem meets your standards or whatever values are specific to you. And most importantly, it doesn't mean you will end up with a "bottom of the barrel" Woman either.

80/20 is overblown, simply because it is not universal and absolute.

This doesn't dispute what I said earlier.

We know this already. Only denied by women. And maybe the top guys eating.

80/20 isn't overblown in the casual dating/sex market. For dudes who wanna give their up life to that 10 to 20-year contract it's somewhat overblown because the next 20% or so of guys can "put in the work" to be the "average niqqa I see with a woman on his arm every day" Coli posters like to cite without knowing what he's dealt/dealing with just to say he's not single.

Science already shown us only 30% of ancient men have passed on their DNA. Hypergamy is real.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Meant to multi-quote. My mistake.

What I was getting at is you don't have to be this proverbial 20% that gets thrown out all the time to end up with a Woman that YOU deem meets your standards or whatever values are specific to you. And most importantly, it doesn't mean you will end up with a "bottom of the barrel" Woman either.

80/20 is overblown, simply because it is not universal and absolute.

Simply put, Average/ugly guys aren't going out which skews the numbers. If they went out 4 days a week then things would be different.

I honestly have a friend who slept with 12 women this month.. degenerate ish

But he’s out every night ..mon to Sunday recruiting from bar to bar

Empty life but if anyone wants to have a rotation of women..you gotta put in the work

The 80/20 rule only applies if you sit at home

Where yo homie be meeting women? I'm tryna be on that degenerate wave

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Simply put, Average/ugly guys aren't going out which skews the numbers. If they went out 4 days a week then things would be different.


Where yo homie be meeting women? I'm tryna be on that degenerate wave

Bars/clubs/casinos bars
Lol

Young bros wasting their time on tinder
Bars low key the go to cause you can go there solo and not get judged..unlike clubs
Just sit right at the front next to the server

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Bars/clubs/casinos bars
Lol

Young bros wasting their time on tinder
Bars low key the go to cause you can go there solo and not get judged..unlike clubs
Just sit right at the front next to the server

Bars and lounges are more convenient.

The first time I went to a bar/lounge alone, I was somewhat nervous because I was very introverted at that time.

Notice it was really chill and relaxed.

Going to a bar alone is risky but it's worth the reward if you want the chick. If a chick is really fukking with you, its easy af.

I don't approach every girl at the bar. I find that reading the room helps to prevent mistakes. I seen dudes drunk af bumping into chicks like hoverboards



Clubs can work too but you have to have that DMX confidence or else you shyt out of luck

 

[Wiseborn]

Elaborate on that.

The way I see it, our culture celebrates excess and youthful ignorance. American culture encourages risk, gluttony, and irrational behavior because all of these things are profitable.
Men are shamed for not being bona-fide p*ssy gettas

Women are (now) being shamed for not 'going through a ho phase'

The overall effect is anxiety on both ends to get as much sex as possible before 'settling down'

The top percent of men that have all the attributes most women want(conventionally good looking, athletic, 6figures, 6feet, 6 weeks PTO/business owner) are eating well in this state of affairs. I think both men AND women deep down just desire a stable relationship built on mutual love and respect, and I think its in a young man's nature to be very sexual, but he can be that way with a woman he has sexual compatability with as well as emotional and social compatibility. When I was in my 20s I had a woman with a high sex drive who could never say no, and generally made moves on me. I also dated one later on that was the opposite. In both instances I still had a good relationship that eventually ended. Women instinctively want the best men they can get. I think that's in their nature. They want to know that the man they're with meets their needs and could meet the need of a child if that happens, but these days women make their own money so it's less about finding a man who will do all the work and make the money and more about finding someone that's willing to meet her half way. We only hear about the gold diggers because they're the most vocal minority on the internet. The people in actually stable relationships aren't online talking about "if they don't do x then they not the one!"

I'm gonna edit in the video she made on how hookup culture hurts women too.

There's base desires that helped progate the spiecies and there's social mores that progate a civilization.


Homo Sapiens are 2 million years old the dawn of civilization started only 12,000 years ago. We aren't even as old as Homo Erectus:




Then there's the civilization building phase where people have to work together closely to ensure the success of the society then there's late stage societies where things get decadent and it evolves into a zero sum game.

 

[Rozay Oro]

Shorty cute

 

[Wiseborn]

You would also think it would be a biological imperative to not remain perpetually single for nikkas that do not want anything else besides sex

It would be best for her to take that chance if she wants the best chance as getting the best genes that she can.

 

[Swahili P'Bitek]

Funny thing is, whenever I listen to women's dating stories, be it from relatives or other women I'm with, they sound similar. I won't say that they are dating the same men, but they are dating the same type of men for the most part.

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

I've noticed that women love sharing the same dude, it seems to be a turn on to them.

Was at the club the other night and some bytch was outside fighting another chick over her man. The crazy part is that she kept yelling “this bytch been wanting to suck my baby daddy dikk”. Meaning, this isn’t new and apparently he tolerates this woman.

So, a logical person would leave, but not a Thot. They’d rather fight the chick outside in front of like 50 people

The chick also had a Giants Market shirt on, meaning she came from work, to the club just to fight

 

[null]

I don't know if it's so much they like it as they feel like the man is 'pre approved' women are less risk tolerant than men, so they feel reassured knowing they don't have a man nobody wants.

It's like how dudes suddenly find out that the women they were friendly with suddenly want to chat more or they're being looked at and talked to more by women after they enter a relationship. They'd prefer a man who's been in a relationship or whom other women have attempted to tame than an untested average guy in the corner.

Your whole vibe changes if you're a man who has a lot of friends and/or has been with multiple women. Women sense an easygoing confidence in you that puts them at ease. They can almost smell the desperation in men who've been rejected or ignored over and over again and has no interesting life experiences or the skill to articulate his life experiences with engaging stories.

incel babble.

 

[RamsayBolton]

Ye gods, her voice

this the only post that made me press play on the video

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

You wouldn't want me if you thought I never had hoes
Women like men other women like
That's just something that every one know

 

[Rekkapryde]

OP..

ANY woman who feel that ALL men are based on her selective choices of a FEW men need to leave ALL men alone until she get her mind right!

The same applies to men!

People have a right to pick and choose partners, but if said choice of partner go bad, then the person who made that choice need to first hold oneself accountable for the choice and outcome of said choice. Their choice and outcome has NOTHING to do with those who haven't dealt with them on a personal level.

Also, people need to stop entertaining other people who snivel about their negative dating & relationship experiences which have nothing to do with the people listening to their snivel...

I understand people have feelings. I also understand that experience affect peoples perception of other people, including people said person hasn't met yet.

But, how is one supposed to learn, grow and evolve as a person if one isn't willing to accept ownership of one's own romantic situation/outcome?

Moral of the :

Grow up, move on and be happy!

Negged for using common sense and being rational

 

[invincible1914]

I’ve got a strong feeling the lack of general intelligence contributes to that

Generally, women want men that other women want/got. Not saying anything just my observation.