Wise young breh .
Young Men know the game but it seems like the Gen Z broads don't understand what's coming.
Women can date "up" for casual fukkin but not for relationships. A female 6 can be the sidepiece of a male 8 but the male 8 will never see her as anything more than a sidepiece. She knows deep down that she can't have him....but gotdamn she's gonna suck his dikk as much as possible to lock him down.
Then she has her wakeup call and discovers that her best chance at a quality breh is dating down to her level....the male 6.
This used to be a legit workable strategy but men don't trust women anymore. The male 6 wants the freaky sex from female 6 that she gave the male 8. She wants to give up as little as possible to get male 6 to commit. He KNOWS she's holding out so he holds out too.
Stalemate.
The smart broads limit the amount of time they spend chasing the 9s and 10s. A little bit in college and then early 20s before ducking out. The dumb ones keep chasing until they get desperate.
Appreciate it OG, the bolded is a great way to put it. That's why women get mad when guys like me that they occasionally fukk/mess with say they're not interested in anything serious past a certain age. It's indirectly communicating that if you want me send choosing signs, and BUILD WITH ME NOW, because once you do all the work of getting setup/established, it leaves a bad taste in your mouth to deal with someone who wouldn't of given you play/time of day/acknowledged you before the bread.
A guy ITT said it, a bit too lazy to go back and @ them, but I'm self improving and with that comes more women, but not because I changed as an individual, my circumstance is just shifting as work/study/grind is beginning to pay off. Women who never spoke to me, all of a sudden develop manners when you have a car, or in my case a mild luxury car. If you have a nice place and are in shape you can eat crazy. Difference is men can transparently see because of the economy, and social media (#brokeboy) that women are giving them play moreso because of situation then personality. A lot of men in my gen are having that "I thought it was me" BBD moment, and aren't mad/spiteful per se, but feel like if the broad don't fukk with dudes for who they are what's the point.
Overall one thing this thread is discounting is how many men are like @Rozay Oro and more so want intimacy/companionship that makes the sex worthwhile. When you tell a man they need to get things it shatters all the crap Gen Z got fed growing up about being special, and being loved for you. Frankly it makes women more of a guaranteed chore than a potential pleasure.
I can't put an accurate number on it but I'd say out of that 27% half literally are incapable (not enough social skills or understanding of game/women), but the other half isn't motivated to try, whether it's because they feel like they have to put in more effort than better looking/better off dudes (which is true), and they don't feel the women is worth that, or they don't value that sex highly and get joy/pleasure that keeps them content elsewhere in life.
I don't think some you older heads fully understand how much feminism/equality stuff was rammed down gen z males throats growing up only for them to realized that it's just talk mostly. Most women would rather not work and wish a dude could provide everything for them, most women are more shallow than men and only lose it as they continuously end up as a quick effortless nut for men outside their league, most women are choosing situations not character, then becoming comfortable/adaptive to character later. If you bought/entertained/operated on the spiel of them being equal, having morals, being more understanding, etc. when you go out there and see the high expectations lack of self sufficiency, lack of accountability, and for christ sake lack of personality. It's a turn off in general.
The funny thing is if broads carried their own weight or were more accountable or were more interesting people, guys would try more with like literally any one of these three things changing. I'm an outlier as I personally expect more because I know my worth/what I bring to the table. fukk I look like giving strong game or courting to a woman that hasn't sent a choosing signal? Nothing annoys/frustrates/puts off men my age more than getting dubbed by a woman that's exactly on your level. You know a broad that's as attractive as you more often than not won't be as smart, not because she can't be but because there's no pressure for her to do for self with simps, sugar daddys, and parents acting as a multi-layer safety net. She probably doesn't have more money than me because she more likely than not doesn't work like that or blows money on stupid shyt, more likely than not doesn't have hobbies outside of shopping, eating out/drinking with friends, yet society assumes I want to go out of my way to make an effort to bang this woman.
It really ain't that serious when I got 4k porn at the crib, and premium edibles. It is indeed a stalemate, the internet/social media+3rd wave feminism raised and specified women's expectations while allowing them to do less (effort wise) to get the same results if not better than before the internet/social media+3rd wave feminism came to the forefront. Since women started doing less and expecting more some men I know IRL, just are no longer in the game.
TL/DR, To simplify it women are becoming a mild luxury as opposed to a base necessity for a growing amount of men. For some they're metaphorically affordable, but they're not worth it (not motivated). For others they're just too expensive and cant be afforded (inept no social skills).
Thing is you can be content in life without luxury or having mad luxuries, which I feel like is conceptually being overlooked ITT.
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