Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
And these are the women who are rejecting me.Honestly if that was my lineup I would stay at home too
But we only want dimes and instagram models
And these are the women who are rejecting me.Honestly if that was my lineup I would stay at home too
IMO the damage is done, but women get more of a leewaySo men and women are doing the same things. Great to know, but it still doesn’t really solve the dating issue or answer how more of this would balance the dating world.
I’m just not convinced that the preferences of women who are considered average/below average by men are really the primary factor in this.Yeah a lot of men aren't putting in the effort. And it could be for any number of reasons but holding out for 8-9-10's does not apply for the mass majority
A 17-18-19 year old Virgin ain't turning down his equal or slightly lesser in looks.
As they get older and more bitter without positive interaction they put up that wall and aim for the cream of the crop because they've lost hope. Not because they wouldn't be with women on their level or slightly lower if they weren't in such a downward spiral about it mentally
I repeat that line of thought ain't applying to the majority of men.
Thank you brehBecause that's not true.
Average to below average men are actively trying to pursue average to below average women and they aren't interested.
This is my example:
These are all women I've sent messages to online and none of them replied.
This idea that "incels" only want dimes is a god damn lie.
If these are the type of women deeming me not good enough, why would I keep putting in effort only to get rejected by women who look like that?
I feel youIMO the damage is done, but women get more of a leeway
Just to Keep saying it and a few will break this mindset and live their life to the fullestWhat you have said has been repeated ad nauseum but a lot of dudes refuse to hear it and will not take action, you see it on this site dudes pushing back on the simplest of advice, what is the solution to that?
Because that's not true.
Average to below average men are actively trying to pursue average to below average women and they aren't interested.
This is my example:
These are all women I've sent messages to online and none of them replied.
This idea that "incels" only want dimes is a god damn lie.
If these are the type of women deeming me not good enough, why would I keep putting in effort only to get rejected by women who look like that?
Well your speaking to the current relationship climate. In which case attractive men and all women below him outside of 1-3 are in his range and if 4's and up can make the choice to give it up to those attractive men and ignore the rest they will. While those average to unattractive men are fighting for scraps, walking away, or stewing in bitterness and frustration making it even harder on themselvesI’m just not convinced that the preferences of women who are considered average/below average by men are really the primary factor in this.
It almost seems like the advice is that basic chicks should just fukk dudes on their level. But many dudes on their level only want them for sex JUST like the other higher level guys want. So what does bussin it open for even more men who don’t want you, do for the dating game other than give sex to more dudes who view you as less than...
Even worse, these chicks would be adding sexual partners they don’t even like to their body count, who also feel “meh” about them too.
The level of commitment and devotion you have to somebody you attracted to vs somebody it’s a chore to fukk with is like night and day...
I don't.
Damn breh.
Perhaps online dating isn't it. Do you have any luck when it comes to cold approaches?
So if they were receptive to you, would you be willing to love and cherish them or pursue a deeply romantic relationship with them?Because that's not true.
Average to below average men are actively trying to pursue average to below average women and they aren't interested.
This is my example:
These are all women I've sent messages to online and none of them replied.
This idea that "incels" only want dimes is a god damn lie.
If these are the type of women deeming me not good enough, why would I keep putting in effort only to get rejected by women who look like that?
I don't.
It's a waste of time.
Yeah I think social media has done a number on the youth. I think access is more of a negative than a positive bc they are overlooking the cute girl in their neighborhood for that dime thats states away with thousands of followers.
Well like most people I said to myselfSo if they were receptive to you, would you be willing to love and cherish them or pursue a deeply romantic relationship with them?
Or are you just trying to have sex?
It would be one thing if men were saying, I’m trying to be serious and honorable with chicks that look like this but they ain’t wit it.
But that’s not the case. Men are literally adamant that females who look like them are for smashing and dashing. And men are vocal about this. Which is fine.
But if this is the case, why shouldn’t those chicks not have standards for themselves? Should they just “play their role” or “know their lane” and be happy to get nutted on by somebody because they are considered unattractive?
And if they did just completely do a 180 and become wonderfully sexually permissive, how would that help you or them when you don’t truly want to build with these types anyway...