The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with zero sex partners tripled from 08-18

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This thread actually answers the question as to why this is happening very accurately. A LOT of broken and damaged men in here with serious intimacy and rage issues.

Quick question:
How does below average and average women only fukking who they want upset the dating balance when dudes don’t even want average or below average women anyway?
:patrice:
So I’ve heard this theory a lot on this site and some other places online. In short, some dudes think that average and below average women have too many attractive male sexual options which causes them reject or avoid men “on their level” and that is fukking up the dating game.

But when I think about it, it doesn’t make sense.

Most men don’t want these chicks anyway and are constantly striving for women above their own level looks wise. They want the best looking women they can get.

Which is fine and actual normal human behavior. They are allowed their preferences.
:yeshrug:
But how does the group of women you don’t desire, having their own preferences which are also fine and normal, disrupt the dating world when they aren’t who you want in the first place.

Even if all of these women suddenly were willing to make themselves available to men they don’t actually desire, it wouldn’t mean much because these aren’t chicks dudes want to be serious with because of how they look.:yeshrug: Should they just allow themselves to be messed over by dudes they don’t like who also don’t like them just so horny men can have some p*ssy to lay up in to stabilize society?:russ:

lol, people like that have always existed :mjlol:. Any woman can get on a dating app and a guy out of her league willing to fuk within minutes.

2) You know the bolded is not true. Men don't want certain women for RELATIONSHIPS BUT MANY WILL DROP THEIR STANDARDS FOR SEX. The only thing that equalizes dating for women and men is the removal for sex. When a woman removes sex of the table, this is the only time the values equal. If she is easy she can easilly find a man to sleep with her. The struggle for women is when they want more than just sex with said men and they get hit with the :hubie:.

She was hideous yet many men were desperate to fukk. Now imagine if she was AVERAGE, her inboxes will be be blown, she will think she is all that but men out of her league will only want sex from her.

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Like I always mention in these types of threads, the people here giving advice and specifically the advice given speaks volumes where we are. It’s seems the pinnacle of doing the dating game “right” is smashing multiple people and getting around. Those who prefer traditional values of meeting one girl, taking her out from time to time and making her your girlfriend are literally shyt out of luck in today’s world
That’s a good point. The answer isn’t trying to get as much p*ssy as possible when some people are really out here trying to find somebody they can connect with on a deeper level. Even worse advice is when they say to fukk escorts
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lol, people like that have always existed :mjlol:. Any woman can get on a dating app and a guy out of her league willing to fuk within minutes.

2) You know the bolded is not true. Men don't want certain women for RELATIONSHIPS BUT MANY WILL DROP THEIR STANDARDS FOR SEX. The only thing that equalizes dating for women and men is the removal for sex. When a woman removes sex of the table, this is the only time the values equal. If she is easy she can easilly find a man to sleep with her. The struggle for women is when they want more than just sex with said men and they get hit with the :hubie:.

She was hideous yet many men were desperate to fukk. Now imagine if she was AVERAGE, her inboxes will be be blown, she will think she is all that but men out of her league will only want sex from her.

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I didn’t intimate that women had it harder when it came to sex vs. men.
I wasn’t comparing that.

I was just asking how these chicks giving it up would somehow magically change the game when they aren’t what most men want anyway.

These chicks aren’t just fukking to fukk. They want relationships. So saying they can get dikk easy is irrelevant. What they can’t get is relationships from men. So what would making themselves sexually available to more men who don’t want to be in a relationship with them do for the dating game?
Lol! Why on earth should a chick double her L by getting with somebody she doesn’t want sexually, who also doesn’t want her for anything other than sex?

And how would this change the dating game because men still aren’t getting the chicks they really want. Just something I was turning over on my head. It just doesn’t seem like a good solution without some major social shifts.
 

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I got divorced almost 4 years ago. We had been separated for almost two years before that. I started dating again a few months after I kicked her out the house. I started doing Uber part time to keep myself occupied so I wouldn’t do any stupid shyt. Meeting women doing that was like shooting fish in a barrel. I didn’t even get on a app
I have a career breh I'm not gonna start driving. Im handsome gang so girls will match with me, Add me on IG snap fb view my stories etc. But they have no interest in meeting. They'll make plans but flake. Ego boost.
 

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They will settle but in those cases, they don’t really cherish those women and it can lead to cheating, resentment, disrespect...
I’ve seen how a lot of people act towards individuals they REALLY like and are attracted to vs people they just tolerating. It ain’t pretty.:picard: It can be even worse than just being single.
Women do they exact same
They’ll sleep with and date a man they don’t cherish either for resources, security, etc.
When women do this it’s called survival or empowerment, but what do you call it when men do it
 

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Women do they exact same
They’ll sleep with and date a man they don’t cherish either for resources, security, etc.
When women do this it’s called survival or empowerment, but what do you call it when men do it
So men and women are doing the same things. Great to know, but it still doesn’t really solve the dating issue or answer how more of this would balance the dating world.:yeshrug:
 

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Quick question:
How does below average and average women only fukking who they want upset the dating balance when dudes don’t even want average or below average women anyway?
:patrice:
So I’ve heard this theory a lot on this site and some other places online. In short, some dudes think that average and below average women have too many attractive male sexual options which causes them reject or avoid men “on their level” and that is fukking up the dating game.

But when I think about it, it doesn’t make sense.

Most men don’t want these chicks anyway and are constantly striving for women above their own level looks wise. They want the best looking women they can get.
Which is fine and actual normal human behavior. They are allowed their preferences.
:yeshrug:
But how does the group of women you don’t desire, having their own preferences which are also fine and normal, disrupt the dating world when they aren’t who you want in the first place.

Even if all of these women suddenly were willing to make themselves available to men they don’t actually desire, it wouldn’t mean much because these aren’t chicks dudes want to be serious with because of how they look.:yeshrug: Should they just allow themselves to be messed over by dudes they don’t like who also don’t like them just so horny men can have some p*ssy to lay up in to stabilize society?:russ:


Yeah a lot of men aren't putting in the effort. And it could be for any number of reasons but holding out for 8-9-10's does not apply for the mass majority

A 17-18-19 year old Virgin ain't turning down his equal or slightly lesser in looks.

As they get older and more bitter without positive interaction they put up that wall and aim for the cream of the crop because they've lost hope. Not because they wouldn't be with women on their level or slightly lower if they weren't in such a downward spiral about it mentally

I repeat that line of thought ain't applying to the majority of men.
 

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A 6-cert breh checking in ...

On the flip side, you have women being "blown out" by men (...and women) like rocket boosters.

The number of men that I know who are 6-figs (and higher) and not married is substantive.

Women either ...

a) Have more children than an orphanage
b) Overweight
c) Old
d) More bodies than a necropolis
e) Bad attitudes
f) More mental issues than multiple magazine subscriptions
g) Tattoos, piercings, et al

I suspect that these young men, as they become older, will either go #passportgang or #ghostnation.

The social fallout could be spectacular coupled with a high inflation environment or the dollar losing its reserved currency status in the world. In any event, you may want to employ a lifeboat strategy in case it is needed ...

Yeah most dudes I know who make six figures have no kids and we older we not your age. Grown ass men with grays with no children driving 80k cars and living in the beach.

Funny thing is they knee deep in New p*ssy every week but won't marry none of them hoes.
 

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Time for you to invest a time to learn how to be sociable, confidence, and charismatic. There are no excuses why you cant learn those three traits.
Yeah, facts I just gotta put myself out there and start. Which I think will be the hardest part to start
 

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Quick question:
How does below average and average women only fukking who they want upset the dating balance when dudes don’t even want average or below average women anyway?
:patrice:
So I’ve heard this theory a lot on this site and some other places online. In short, some dudes think that average and below average women have too many attractive male sexual options which causes them reject or avoid men “on their level” and that is fukking up the dating game.

But when I think about it, it doesn’t make sense.

Most men don’t want these chicks anyway and are constantly striving for women above their own level looks wise. They want the best looking women they can get.
Which is fine and actual normal human behavior. They are allowed their preferences.
:yeshrug:
But how does the group of women you don’t desire, having their own preferences which are also fine and normal, disrupt the dating world when they aren’t who you want in the first place.

Even if all of these women suddenly were willing to make themselves available to men they don’t actually desire, it wouldn’t mean much because these aren’t chicks dudes want to be serious with because of how they look.:yeshrug: Should they just allow themselves to be messed over by dudes they don’t like who also don’t like them just so horny men can have some p*ssy to lay up in to stabilize society?:russ:
Because that's not true.
Average to below average men are actively trying to pursue average to below average women and they aren't interested.

This is my example:
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These are all women I've sent messages to online and none of them replied.

This idea that "incels" only want dimes is a god damn lie.

If these are the type of women deeming me not good enough, why would I keep putting in effort only to get rejected by women who look like that?
 

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The main problem is that most men on the coli rely only on dating apps to get women , when that's skewed heavily to favor women.

Dating apps makes men who are regular looking, into thinking they are disfigured. While, making average women think they super models.

If dating/social media apps wasn't a thing. Sexless men wouldnt be as common.
 

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Because that's not true.
Average to below average men are actively trying to pursue average to below average women and they aren't interested.

This is my example:
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These are all women I've sent messages to online and none of them replied.

This idea that "incels" only want dimes is a god damn lie.

If these are the type of women deeming me not good enough, why would I keep putting in effort only to get rejected by women who look like that?
Honestly if that was my lineup I would stay at home too
 
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