I've met women with the strongest of social anxieties talking about doing the unthinkable.
Most women aren't going to be open about that because despite how society is nowadays, people still save face. Which is valid, because not everyone rocks with the same thing.
But when you eventually find out...
And women tend to become more receptive to you once you've been on your purpose, because your focus isn't all on them. Of course, it doesn't mean they're just going to fly into your DMs all of a sudden, but people as a whole can feel when you've got something going for your life and you're not desperate and needy over them. It's like when you can feel when somebody's just negative, the vibe is off and you're repelled by them. Doing your own thing is probably the best thing to do because at least you'll have your mind focused on other things.
Plus... A lot of people in general aren't interesting enough to pour all of your attention into like that. Especially with the pandemic throwing a wrench into everything. So like that old saying goes, "If you want to be interesting to people, you've got to do interesting things." That being said though, it should be done for your own benefit and enrichment, not for the sake of others. Documenting a lot of your journey can go a long way, many people could make really fire Instagram pages just off that alone.