OfTheCross
Veteran
Life is all about trade offs. Very rarely do you get everything you want.
Some people trade having a home and a lawn for a higher income in a downtown area with more growth opportunities.
"The only people who are moving out are broke people"
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Some people trade having a home and a lawn for a higher income in a downtown area with more growth opportunities.
- Why do ya'll do this; ya'll just want to fukk with the door open and smoke drugs shyt? Most people got to move away from their homes to make money--especially nowadays. You not "stacking up" working at McDonald's.
- Adults cannot live under the rule of adults for long. I stayed with both my parents (divorced) for like 6 month each after college...hell no.
- It's the parents fault for not starting a saving the day the kid is born so they got a few months ahead to get it together. This is America. People don't do the don't move out til you married shyt. Plus, it leads to an arrested development;
23 years old with a 10 o clock curfew ass dude.s
i dont think anything you said was a good counter argument to anything i said. why would we be against people moving if it provides them with better opportunities to make money or if they need to?
Our comments are clearly aimed at the people who lack common sense and priorities who work dead end jobs, and continuously make these stupid decisions that goes against their own best interest simply because,
"This is America. We do things this way here". The average American has less than $1000 saved, is fat, and a moron. Why the fukk would one follow in the footsteps of the average American?
you are literally setting yourself up for failure.
Most. People. Don't. Have. A. Choice.
I had a job junior and senior year of high school and my own car (with no payments).
By the time graduation came along I was ready to go. My folks wanted me to stay home but it I was ready to stand on my own 2 feet.
shyt I was only 18 but when I could I'd pull a Lil overtime. End up comin home after 23:00. Then if I wanted to have some food, felt like I was tiptoeing around and shyt. I was being respectful and not coming home slamming doors, walking loud and shyt, but until you have your own spot with roommates or a girlfriend or kids...you don't really understand that feeling or thought process of "who's in my house?" "What are they doing?" "Did they lock the door?" "They gonna fukk something up?" Getting woke up at all hours and shyt....I was able to grasp that before I moved out and my parents never gave me shyt about it.
I was more than ready to do me though.
Got my spot with my roommates, who like me worked and went to school. After a couple years lived alone (best feeling in the world), then met my lady and a Lil less than a decade later here I am.
By the time graduation came along I was ready to go. My folks wanted me to stay home but it I was ready to stand on my own 2 feet.
shyt I was only 18 but when I could I'd pull a Lil overtime. End up comin home after 23:00. Then if I wanted to have some food, felt like I was tiptoeing around and shyt. I was being respectful and not coming home slamming doors, walking loud and shyt, but until you have your own spot with roommates or a girlfriend or kids...you don't really understand that feeling or thought process of "who's in my house?" "What are they doing?" "Did they lock the door?" "They gonna fukk something up?" Getting woke up at all hours and shyt....I was able to grasp that before I moved out and my parents never gave me shyt about it.
I was more than ready to do me though.
Got my spot with my roommates, who like me worked and went to school. After a couple years lived alone (best feeling in the world), then met my lady and a Lil less than a decade later here I am.
BornStar
Marathon Continues
I respect his decision, he accepted defeat but he is still delusional thinking he is a HVM while he is living at his mommas house with no job in his 30s.
Bullshyt and you know it
OfTheCross
Veteran
No it isn't. Do you live a life where you never have to compromise? Do you get everything that you want?
Be as realistic as you are idealistic.
NeilCartwright
All Star
I think people missing the point. Brehs I’m here saying they moved out at 18, that’s all well and good but they fail to mention they’re older. Wages have not gone up, these are facts
If people have less buying power now more than ever what does that mean for people out here tryna make something shake
If people have less buying power now more than ever what does that mean for people out here tryna make something shake
Wargames
One Of The Last Real Ones To Do It
Social media cause a lot of depression. People with low self esteem need more mentors in their life when they are young to actually compare themselves to.
There's nothing idealistic about saying "if you can't make 6 figures or close to it don't bother living in a metro area".
No it isn't. Do you live a life where you never have to compromise? Do you get everything that you want?
Be as realistic as you are idealistic.
Let me guess you work STEM or law and anyone who doesn't forfeits the right to live anywhere worth a damn right?
SleezyBigSlim
Banned
She has a point, when I moved out I was broke as a joke with a fasfa loan.
She has it backwards. In the black community people stay living with they folks if they broke. None of the people I know living with they family by choice, they cant afford to move out on their own and dont value themselves enough to pick the right mate. I mean if you're a female you need to get with a dude that's earning and can take you out of your parents house. I can't stand dumb bytches.
Justin Nitsuj
Superstar
I don't know why black people be making a big deal outta people staying home. shyt it's way better to help around the house than to be out by yourself and doing everything by yourself. But if you can handle it, then kudos to you.
OfTheCross
Veteran
Nope, I make and average wage, less than 50k, and live comfortably in Miami. I've avoided many mistakes and pitfalls that have caused others to falter.
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
It's better to stay at home and save some money... but You need your own place if you want to get laid consistently.
NasirJr
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My cousin stayed with his mom till he was 24ish, he helped pay the bills even though his mom/my aunt really wasn’t even sweating him to do so and he just saved his money and started building his credit up to like a 740+. The nikka was able to get a house, a fukking car with no type of outrageous down payment. Meanwhile i at 19 thought I was that nikka and told my mother “kick me out, I got hoes out here I can stay with” and then came to the reality that nikka I got no “hoes” out here I can stay with or money or credit.