"The only people who are moving out are broke people"

[Sterling Archer]

That’s not a point tho


Is she just saying an adult letting another adult pay all the bills allows you to save money?

what kind of advice is that?

I really dont know. I assume her point was dont be so hasty to leave home because you could be hurting your earning potential by leaving the stability provided. This I agree with.
If that wasnt the point she was trying to make then this bytch is just stupid all together because her titular remark was only broke people move out nad thats just...ignorant.

 

[Luck]

Didn’t watch the video, broad look like Judge Mabeline from TV. But I been out the parents crib since I was 17...

Not to say people should or shouldn’t do whatever, your situation is yours but being on your own you learn to figure shyt out and become self sufficient. All that shyt builds character and resilience. You can tell people who spent too much time with their parents, especially nikkas who living with moms because they end up with them same shytty feminine tendencies even if it’s subtle.

Now I did end up in the joint but that’s another story. Either way fast forward to 2021...my crib damn near worth a half million on the south side of Chicago, a couple blocks from stony in south shore.

All me...
No gifts from parents or anyone else
No grants
I made my way hustling I don’t owe nikkas shyt...


Reason why I have zero tolerance for you bum ass nikkas here and the rest of these local bum ass nikkas...if a big “aggressive” ass nikka with a violent felony background can get out here and get it, what’s stopping the rest of you/these clowns...?

 

[OfTheCross]

Nobody should have to move hundreds of miles away because they don't make 6 figures. People should not be jumping out their mother's house at 19 but by your mid-late 20s a interstate relocation should be based on a career opportunity not affordability. Your line of thinking doesn't solve the actual issue.

I disagree. There are always going to be places that cost more to live in than others. And the high-skilled or high-paying jobs are never going to be as abundant as the low-skilled or low-paying jobs. Since that's the reality of the situation, there's nothing wrong with moving from NYC to Buffalo, for example.

 

[BunchePark]

80s baby

Moved out making less than 20k almost making 200k

Lol fukk I looked like staying at momma house

Yes i wanted to move out to fukk and smoke weed ya god damn right

Funny thing is that same girl is my wife now

And mom was watching the kids today while i WFH and im in the garage blowing hella weed aint that some shyt

 

[Shadow King]

I disagree. There are always going to be places that cost more to live in than others. And the high-skilled or high-paying jobs are never going to be as abundant as the low-skilled or low-paying jobs. Since that's the reality of the situation, there's nothing wrong with moving from NYC to Buffalo, for example.

You disagree that it doesn't address the issue? How? What you're saying is to step around the issue, literally hundreds of miles. The problem with this excuse is even in these high COL areas the pay doesn't reflect a measure of independent livability. A 25+ year-old New Yorker shouldn't have to move to Buffalo because it costs $3K to live in a closet.

 

[OfTheCross]

You disagree that it doesn't address the issue? How? What you're saying is to step around the issue, literally hundreds of miles. The problem with this excuse is even in these high COL areas the pay doesn't reflect a measure of independent livability. A 25+ year-old New Yorker shouldn't have to move to Buffalo because it costs $3K to live in a closet.

I disagree that having "to move hundreds of miles away because they don't make 6 figures" is an issue.

It isn't.

We've got many Affordable Housing programs and Cost of Living subsidies in the expensive areas of this country. So many, in fact, that Miami has one of the lowest average Incomes in the Country, yet has one of the Highest Cost of Livings.

So, people don't have to move. But, if you want to be more comfortable, and self-reliant, it's encouraged.

 

[Shadow King]

I disagree that having "to move hundreds of miles away because they don't make 6 figures" is an issue.

It isn't.

We've got many Affordable Housing programs and Cost of Living subsidies in the expensive areas of this country. So many, in fact, that Miami has one of the lowest average Incomes in the Country, yet has one of the Highest Cost of Livings.

So, people don't have to move. But, if you want to be more comfortable, and self-reliant, it's encouraged.

And does everyone get in those buildings? No. Those people also can never make any advancements their careers or salary or else they have to deal with that same cost of living just like everyone else.

A move that big should not be encouraged to support the idea that the average earner having to spend north of 60% of their income on shelter is acceptable.

 

[CrimsonTider]

I really dont know. I assume her point was dont be so hasty to leave home because you could be hurting your earning potential by leaving the stability provided. This I agree with.
If that wasnt the point she was trying to make then this bytch is just stupid all together because her titular remark was only broke people move out nad thats just...ignorant.

Of course that’s true in a vacuum but some people can’t stay at home after school

 

[OfTheCross]

And does everyone get in those buildings? No. Those people also can never make any advancements their careers or salary or else they have to deal with that same cost of living just like everyone else.

A move that big should not be encouraged to support the idea that the average earner having to spend north of 60% of their income on shelter is acceptable.

Explain to me what you're advocating for, because I'm not sure what you'd like to see happen.

It seems, though, if I'm reading your posts correctly, that you'd like everyone working in an area, to be able to afford to live in that same community.

 

[goatmane]

. One is a hermit that is content with never getting p*ssy again .

 

[Easy-E]

She has a point, when I moved out I was broke as a joke with a fasfa loan.

Putting themselves at a disadvantage for literally no reason. Bunch of people leaving home broke, crashing on a couch in a closet sized apartment with 2 other roommates just for some self perceived, “freedom”

1. Why do ya'll do this; ya'll just want to fukk with the door open and smoke drugs shyt? Most people got to move away from their homes to make money--especially nowadays. You not "stacking up" working at McDonald's.
2. Adults cannot live under the rule of adults for long. I stayed with both my parents (divorced) for like 6 month each after college...hell no.
3. It's the parents fault for not starting a saving the day the kid is born so they got a few months ahead to get it together. This is America. People don't do the don't move out til you married shyt. Plus, it leads to an arrested development; 23 years old with a 10 o clock curfew ass dude.s

 

[MajesticLion]

The squeeze done got squoze

 

[Shadow King]

Explain to me what you're advocating for, because I'm not sure what you'd like to see happen.

It seems, though, if I'm reading your posts correctly, that you'd like everyone working in an area, to be able to afford to live in that same community.

Housing cost too much period. A community is not a city or a metropolitan area. Yes they're going to be portions of a particular metropolitan area that are more expensive than others and that's where the highest earners live but once again paying 60% of your income to have a roof over your head or else move to a city with exponentially less opportunities or amenities shouldn't be a normality that's accepted.

 

[Easy-E]

I agree everyone is different

Some people have horrible families, abuse, molestation etc., nagging parents etc.
Some people move due to jobs, school etc.
Some people are stuck in little apartments etc

If you're dad is abusing you, you're more than likely going to bounce than if you have a loving home

If its you ad 4 of your siblings in a 2 bedroom apartment yeah you're going to counce

My problem are these extremes.

Really, sex and smoking weed? I understand why people leave, but, I don't wanna hear shyt like I saved $40,000.

I got a good job, fukk I look like staying with moms? You may as well stay til you 50--it saves money, right?

Again, if you can stay home til like 20, 21 years old, get work experience, deal with your parent/s treating you like a child, maintain responsibility as a man/woman, do it.

But, the reality is; most people are gone by 18, 19.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

What a stupid ass comment

Yall dudes will shyt on Black women all day

But when 1 makes u feel good about living with ya parents at 25 yall all...

"preach sista..."