The OFFICIAL Red Flags When Dating Men Thread

Neguinha

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I just said I say women too :gucci:
And I'm telling you that your sparing use of "women" isn't good enough. Say women all of the time. Completely replace "female" with "women".

Wouldn't calling a fe-- woman a woman be referring to her as her sex as well?

And how is the word "female" worse than "hoe" and "bytch" :mindblown:
Babe, please take some kind of course on women or LGBT history or something. There are many Tumblr pages with moderators dedicated to helping people understand the terminology of sexuality. "Woman" has nothing to do with body parts or sex.

And I never said that "bytch" and "hoe" were worse than "female". I never replied with that response.
 

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Both of you are reiterating the same sentiments; that "unknown women" get called "females". For some reason, "woman" is seeing resistance in your vocabularies. For some reason, we can't call unknown, unnamed women "women". We have to call them "females". We have to refer to them as their sex. We have to refer to them as their biological identities. We have to refer to them as their chromosomes. We have to refer to them as their vaginas. Why?

You would not call a female human "female". You would call her a "woman".

I'm not here to change your terminology, but I want to express why this word bothers me. I hate "females" more than I hate "bytches" or "hoes". "bytches" and "hoes" is obvious. These are ugly words. They're not meant to positive, but when I hear people using "females" so casually without regard to the connotations, I itch. I don't like when girls call each other "females". I don't like when girls call each other "bytch". Especially black women.

I'm one of those types.
personally I don't think its that serious

I never even knew it was an issue until social media said so
 

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Wouldn't calling a fe-- woman a woman be referring to her as her sex as well?

And how is the word "female" worse than "hoe" and "bytch" :mindblown:
A woman is an actual human being, a person. Female is not more formal than woman. You got it backwards.

Usually, when people say "females" they are referring to them as if their only sense of identity is what is between their legs.
 

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A woman is an actual human being, a person. Female is not more formal than woman. You got it backwards.

Usually, when people say "females" they are referring to them as if their only sense of identity is what is between their legs.

Maybe it's just my upbringing but it's a non issue on my end, so imma let it go since I can't understand.
 

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I'm a red flag

I travel every week for work.
Hotels/rental cars paid for by job.
I could be gone up to 3 weeks at a time.
Would you date me?
 

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I'm a red flag

I travel every week for work.
Hotels/rental cars paid for by job.
I could be gone up to 3 weeks at a time.
Would you date me?
lol that's just your occupation.

Do you have a hard time dating?
A lot of women probably wouldn't want to deal with that on a consistent basis unless you making bread but even then that's a lot of time away.

Some women can handle it others can't.
 

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This thread was started two full days after @Theraflu and it still managed to be longer....That, and the fact that the women are the minorities on this forum....Ya'll ladies really don't play....:mjlol:
 
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