nah that aint no red flag lol
if your boys go out to the strip club like twice a year its just fun shyt
what you think happens at bachelor parties its not a common thing but shyt happens
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if your boys go out to the strip club like twice a year its just fun shyt
what you think happens at bachelor parties its not a common thing but shyt happens
I would question my partners commitment to the relationship if he thought that fun should include nekkid women other than myself
It's a deal breaker for me
"Female" posters.
you personalizing strip clubs thats crazy
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
I don't have no problem with a guy going to a strip club every now and then.
At the end of the day if a person wants to cheat they're gonna find a way even if they were on the job.
Plus I don't know what's in that persons head. I can try to stop my man from going out and doing this and that but I'm not stopping any thoughts he my have of another woman. Once I thought of shyt like that it doesn't bother me.
Queen
CEO of #GPB
If a man enjoys being erect around his friends and tries to make it seem like you should think it is normal, then that's a red flag. 
How is a nekkid woman grinding on top of you not intimate and personal
The fact that you are detached from that form of intimacy is also a red flag.
BrokePhiBroke
Superstar
with the exception of being naked....what's the difference from being in a club on the dance floor and a woman grinding on a man and a strip club?How is a nekkid woman grinding on top of you not intimate and personal
The fact that you are detached from that form of intimacy is also a red flag.
Again with the obvious being naked.
Should said man be "emotionally invested" in this dance?
Both are highly inappropriate whilst in a relationship and a red flag.
If you are looking for a committed relationship, this type of person ain't it.
If a man enjoys being erect around his friends and tries to make it seem like you should think it is normal, then that's a red flag.
Where do ya'll find these weirdos?
he wants you to do anything to or involving his ass
If a man enjoys being erect around his friends and tries to make it seem like you should think it is normal, then that's a red flag.
everyone should've daped these
not too many nikkas from harlem around here
ladies this is like the third time some one mentioned some gay shytIf a man enjoys being erect around his friends and tries to make it seem like you should think it is normal, then that's a red flag.
Why y'all attractin fakkits
If a man enjoys being erect around his friends and tries to make it seem like you should think it is normal, then that's a red flag.
Lol!
-Can criticize women left and right but gets belligerent and in his feelings at any criticism a woman has about men. (Check this thread for examples)
-Romantic failures of the past are never his fault but always some chick's fault.
-Generalizes American women
-Stereotypes blk women while conveniently ignoring that blk men grew up in the same environment.
-Idealizes non-black women.
-Thinks romance or being emotional open with women is weak or "simping"
-Cannot enjoy time spent with you b/c he is only constantly focused on sex.
-Is anti-marriage.
-Justifies male cheating.
-Claims that any successful woman had to have sucked dikk to get her accomplishments.
-Multiple children by multiple women.
-Can't be himself around you. Everything he says is finesse.
-Actions don't match his promises.
-Expectations in women don't match what he is able to bring to the table
-Thinks most women want to be treated badly.
-Thinks good chicks are boring.
-Brags about being HOH and shytty things he's done to women in the past.
-Takes pride in living off women if they allow it.
-Encourages other men to treat women badly and criticizes any man in love or treating their woman right.
-Can criticize women left and right but gets belligerent and in his feelings at any criticism a woman has about men. (Check this thread for examples)
-Romantic failures of the past are never his fault but always some chick's fault.
-Generalizes American women
-Stereotypes blk women while conveniently ignoring that blk men grew up in the same environment.
-Idealizes non-black women.
-Thinks romance or being emotional open with women is weak or "simping"
-Cannot enjoy time spent with you b/c he is only constantly focused on sex.
-Is anti-marriage.
-Justifies male cheating.
-Claims that any successful woman had to have sucked dikk to get her accomplishments.
-Multiple children by multiple women.
-Can't be himself around you. Everything he says is finesse.
-Actions don't match his promises.
-Expectations in women don't match what he is able to bring to the table
-Thinks most women want to be treated badly.
-Thinks good chicks are boring.
-Brags about being HOH and shytty things he's done to women in the past.
-Takes pride in living off women if they allow it.
-Encourages other men to treat women badly and criticizes any man in love or treating their woman right.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
I've never heard of a straight guy in my life thinking that this is normal.If a man enjoys being erect around his friends and tries to make it seem like you should think it is normal, then that's a red flag.