Eh, I think that's just vernacular. I don't think it really holds any deeper malicious meaning.
Not saying it brehs cant switch it up, but I dont think anyone is purposefully doing it.
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Eh, I think that's just vernacular. I don't think it really holds any deeper malicious meaning.
Not saying it brehs cant switch it up, but I dont think anyone is purposefully doing it.
Some adults dont do these things until asked though.
BrokePhiBroke
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Trying to shut you off from everyone especially family.
Calling you crazy every time you question him about something (being manipulative)
Jokingly saying he'll kill you if you leave (he's crazy)
If he tries to make it seem like your being dramatic every time you tell him you don't like something (he doesn't really care about what you say or feel)
If every time you tell him "no" to something he says he'll get it from "a white girl" but yet this white girl doesn't exist
Moving too damn fast within days of meeting each other.
Calling you crazy every time you question him about something (being manipulative)
Jokingly saying he'll kill you if you leave (he's crazy)
If he tries to make it seem like your being dramatic every time you tell him you don't like something (he doesn't really care about what you say or feel)
If every time you tell him "no" to something he says he'll get it from "a white girl" but yet this white girl doesn't exist
Moving too damn fast within days of meeting each other.
VFib
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Then that's an adult I couldn't be with. These are basic things.
Business marketing plans are not a basic thing lol
VFib
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I'm taking about the cook, cleaning, laundry. These are things all adults should know how to do. Maybe it's your wording. I don't understand needing to be instructed to do basic tasks.
As a straight man, I would say that it is very important for my brehettes to check a guy's circle of friends, history of behavior and immediate family for red flags. That's where you'll usually find them. Also, listen to your intuition. If it feels off, it probably is
BrokePhiBroke
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Is this a thread about questionable behavior about men or you bytching about women?
Y'all had a whole thread contributing to disqualifications of women...go over there with this shyt.
And furthermore, the West isn't some unicorn place foh.
If he is unable to tell you his plans for the future.
I dont even mean relationship plans, I mean his own personal plans on how he is going to progress himself. A man should always know where he is going and what he is striving for.
If not, you'll end up like my cousin dating a man for 8 years and having no ring to show for it.
GMB tho
I dont even mean relationship plans, I mean his own personal plans on how he is going to progress himself. A man should always know where he is going and what he is striving for.
If not, you'll end up like my cousin dating a man for 8 years and having no ring to show for it.
GMB tho
BrokePhiBroke
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So love doesn't exist?horrible analogy
nikkas are natural hunters
men have multiple wives throughout history
love was only invented in the 50's lol
Women are here for men's sexual gratification?
I'm not being smug I wanna know your take because men seem to drop this all the time (on the innanets that is)
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Is that what you consider being the head of household means?
I think he was responding to that
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m0rninggl0ry
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Me and my stepmother is around the same age
That's interesting. What were your initial thoughts?
m0rninggl0ry
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Trying to shut you off from everyone especially family.
Calling you crazy every time you question him about something (being manipulative)
Jokingly saying he'll kill you if you leave (he's crazy)
If he tries to make it seem like your being dramatic every time you tell him you don't like something (he doesn't really care about what you say or feel)
If every time you tell him "no" to something he says he'll get it from "a white girl" but yet this white girl doesn't exist
Moving too damn fast within days of meeting each other.
Damn. He sounds too familiar. Was his name Chris?